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Sonic back in the mental health system...Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD) or something.
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<blockquote data-quote="Giulia" data-source="post: 533421" data-attributes="member: 14306"><p>I help my father and in this help with my father, it involves helping others. </p><p>One does not go without the other, it contains "and" but not "or". </p><p></p><p>Well, I persist to think that it is better leaving <u>for me</u>. </p><p>Because some feel threatened with the way I give assistance. I don't think it worthes fighting over there. I just hope that they may understand one day that it is for them and not against them. I can only hope the best for them. </p><p></p><p>I just know that if I didn't play the detective and if I didn't have someone who helped me play the detective with my own issues, I wouldn't be able to speak with you because I would had been in the heaven (if it is an understandable way to say). Caregiver or not caregiver, it didn't mind in those days, because this is what saved my life. The rest are only unworthy details who don't worth arguing about, because otherwise, we miss the essential : someone played the detective and I could save my life. That all what matters. </p><p></p><p>So since I don't believe it worthes time and energy to engage in fights over such peculiar things, leaving the board is the wisest option I have. Yes, I acknowledge that other options exist, but the wisest option is leaving the board. For me. And for some who feel clearly threatened by the way I give assistance. </p><p>It is my choice. Not someone else's choice. It is a choice I do before it becomes even worse than it is now. It does not worth to fight over and leave a bitterer place than it is now. I don't want to leave after having exhausted all my energy into fights such that at the end, no one knows why the fights begun. So better choosing to leave proactively than reactively, and this is a choice I can do. </p><p>It is not "someone told me to do so", but a choice I made because it is the wisest and safest option I get between my hands. </p><p>I don't have the choice about the need of medical care. But I have the choice not to stay on a forum board.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Giulia, post: 533421, member: 14306"] I help my father and in this help with my father, it involves helping others. One does not go without the other, it contains "and" but not "or". Well, I persist to think that it is better leaving [U]for me[/U]. Because some feel threatened with the way I give assistance. I don't think it worthes fighting over there. I just hope that they may understand one day that it is for them and not against them. I can only hope the best for them. I just know that if I didn't play the detective and if I didn't have someone who helped me play the detective with my own issues, I wouldn't be able to speak with you because I would had been in the heaven (if it is an understandable way to say). Caregiver or not caregiver, it didn't mind in those days, because this is what saved my life. The rest are only unworthy details who don't worth arguing about, because otherwise, we miss the essential : someone played the detective and I could save my life. That all what matters. So since I don't believe it worthes time and energy to engage in fights over such peculiar things, leaving the board is the wisest option I have. Yes, I acknowledge that other options exist, but the wisest option is leaving the board. For me. And for some who feel clearly threatened by the way I give assistance. It is my choice. Not someone else's choice. It is a choice I do before it becomes even worse than it is now. It does not worth to fight over and leave a bitterer place than it is now. I don't want to leave after having exhausted all my energy into fights such that at the end, no one knows why the fights begun. So better choosing to leave proactively than reactively, and this is a choice I can do. It is not "someone told me to do so", but a choice I made because it is the wisest and safest option I get between my hands. I don't have the choice about the need of medical care. But I have the choice not to stay on a forum board. [/QUOTE]
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