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Sonic back in the mental health system...Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD) or something.
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<blockquote data-quote="Giulia" data-source="post: 533441" data-attributes="member: 14306"><p>I didn't say that I was asked to leave. </p><p>It was a choice I made and still make in conscious, and without someone asked to leave me. A choice I made because I think it is the wisest for me, for you, for us. </p><p>It is something I prefer in the state of mind I am currently, and what I perceive from here. </p><p></p><p>Maybe I will come back later. But now, I feel exhausted by these misunderstandings, and I see them like fights. </p><p>I really need a break. </p><p></p><p>At the moment, living on my own is not a realistic solution. We are working on this path with mom and my family, we are doing our best every day, and I still learn new skills I need to live in this world and live on my own. </p><p>The person with Down Syndrome whom MWM talks about is the person with DS whom MWM talks about, I am what I am, and I don't compete to be "the most impressing difficult child of the world". There are many other places for such a competition, this board is not a place for it. </p><p>We have our uniqueness.</p><p>To be clear as MWM was telling, my aim is living on my own. But unfortunately, it does not take the same pace as others. And in Jewish families, at least in sepharades families, a child may leave his family at 30 or beyond. </p><p>And in France at least, housing crisis is such that children leave from their families much later than in the US.</p><p>And some may never be able to live outside the family, for a reason or another. Who are we to judge them ? The only person who can judge is a higher power (the way you understand it). </p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>MWM, as I said, do whatever you want. You have your own experience of life, you have your own values, and we don't have the same values. No matter what effort we can do for one another, we don't understand each other, and I don't see the point of fighting over there. </p><p>And yes, no matter what you say to the other persons here, you are my main reason for my wish to leave. I am not here to "impress someone by my choices of living with someone or on my own", there are other places for "impressing someone with choosing by living on my own or not". I repeat, you are my main reason for my wish to leave. </p><p>I wish you the best for the future, for your children, for your family, for yourself.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Giulia, post: 533441, member: 14306"] I didn't say that I was asked to leave. It was a choice I made and still make in conscious, and without someone asked to leave me. A choice I made because I think it is the wisest for me, for you, for us. It is something I prefer in the state of mind I am currently, and what I perceive from here. Maybe I will come back later. But now, I feel exhausted by these misunderstandings, and I see them like fights. I really need a break. At the moment, living on my own is not a realistic solution. We are working on this path with mom and my family, we are doing our best every day, and I still learn new skills I need to live in this world and live on my own. The person with Down Syndrome whom MWM talks about is the person with DS whom MWM talks about, I am what I am, and I don't compete to be "the most impressing difficult child of the world". There are many other places for such a competition, this board is not a place for it. We have our uniqueness. To be clear as MWM was telling, my aim is living on my own. But unfortunately, it does not take the same pace as others. And in Jewish families, at least in sepharades families, a child may leave his family at 30 or beyond. And in France at least, housing crisis is such that children leave from their families much later than in the US. And some may never be able to live outside the family, for a reason or another. Who are we to judge them ? The only person who can judge is a higher power (the way you understand it). MWM, as I said, do whatever you want. You have your own experience of life, you have your own values, and we don't have the same values. No matter what effort we can do for one another, we don't understand each other, and I don't see the point of fighting over there. And yes, no matter what you say to the other persons here, you are my main reason for my wish to leave. I am not here to "impress someone by my choices of living with someone or on my own", there are other places for "impressing someone with choosing by living on my own or not". I repeat, you are my main reason for my wish to leave. I wish you the best for the future, for your children, for your family, for yourself. [/QUOTE]
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