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<blockquote data-quote="Tiredof33" data-source="post: 685993" data-attributes="member: 13558"><p>JMom, thank you, I'm a softy too. Many years ago I paid a dentist in advance for my son's dental work. He did not go for one appointment. After two years I asked for a refund (I knew the dentist).</p><p></p><p>My son is not interested in dental work, he wants the money. They (she is deceased now) spend all of their money on a new drum set, concerts, drugs, alcohol, and they spent a weekend in PR two weeks ago.</p><p></p><p>He's not ready to change his lifestyle. Maybe some day soon. My motto is I never give up, I just don't hold my breath. There was a time when I let his problems control me to the point of almost losing my job, pension, sanity, and self respect. It still hurts, some days more than others.</p><p></p><p>The suicide, my sister just being diagnosed with leukemia, my senior mother's health, a few others just pulled me back into a pity party. I have allowed my self to wallow for some days, now I'm crawling back into detach mode.</p><p></p><p>If getting his teeth fixed was important to him he would go.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Tiredof33, post: 685993, member: 13558"] JMom, thank you, I'm a softy too. Many years ago I paid a dentist in advance for my son's dental work. He did not go for one appointment. After two years I asked for a refund (I knew the dentist). My son is not interested in dental work, he wants the money. They (she is deceased now) spend all of their money on a new drum set, concerts, drugs, alcohol, and they spent a weekend in PR two weeks ago. He's not ready to change his lifestyle. Maybe some day soon. My motto is I never give up, I just don't hold my breath. There was a time when I let his problems control me to the point of almost losing my job, pension, sanity, and self respect. It still hurts, some days more than others. The suicide, my sister just being diagnosed with leukemia, my senior mother's health, a few others just pulled me back into a pity party. I have allowed my self to wallow for some days, now I'm crawling back into detach mode. If getting his teeth fixed was important to him he would go. [/QUOTE]
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