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Sorry for all the drama. Now dealing with abusive father..(long).
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<blockquote data-quote="Kjs" data-source="post: 256649"><p>I am so sorry. I had great parents, but my siblings are much older than me, and had very little contact with me. My oldest has millions and has said so. Another brother is very wealthy. Wasn't until my mothers funeral that I overheard them talking. I was not considered a part of the family --- from my siblings because I had easy child and wasn't married. Then at the funeral my sister met with the minister and the minister said in front of the entire church that my mother raised MY son. How can that be? I lived on my own and I moved away when he was 7. </p><p> </p><p>I don't mean to put my story in your post, just wanted to let you know that I too have siblings that live in a different world. I send them birthday wishes every year. Yet they don't even KNOW my birthday. Heck, they planned my mothers funeral ON my birthday last year. They waited a week for my brother to get home and planned it ON my birthday.</p><p> </p><p>I decided when I left town that I do not want to see them again. I feel bad for difficult child not having family though. I don't say bad things to him or in front of him. I just have no desire to see them. They are all well off, I am not. They sit around and talk about all the money and "things" they have. I too have a life, but they are not interested.</p><p> </p><p>I talk to one sister. She fills be in on the others. </p><p> </p><p>I know how much your heart hurts. And I know how you dream of a happy family and happy times together. And for me, I am so jealous of all the people I know that have family get togethers. Nobody can understand until they've been there.</p><p> </p><p>Just remember ONE thing. THEY lose. They don't know YOU or your husband. And most of all...they have missed out on some pretty special people. YOUR kids. It is THERE loss. They are missing out on some special family moments that YOU have. YOUR memories. YOUR traditions. You plan your family get togethers and create YOUR family memories. </p><p> </p><p>Thinking of you.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Kjs, post: 256649"] I am so sorry. I had great parents, but my siblings are much older than me, and had very little contact with me. My oldest has millions and has said so. Another brother is very wealthy. Wasn't until my mothers funeral that I overheard them talking. I was not considered a part of the family --- from my siblings because I had easy child and wasn't married. Then at the funeral my sister met with the minister and the minister said in front of the entire church that my mother raised MY son. How can that be? I lived on my own and I moved away when he was 7. I don't mean to put my story in your post, just wanted to let you know that I too have siblings that live in a different world. I send them birthday wishes every year. Yet they don't even KNOW my birthday. Heck, they planned my mothers funeral ON my birthday last year. They waited a week for my brother to get home and planned it ON my birthday. I decided when I left town that I do not want to see them again. I feel bad for difficult child not having family though. I don't say bad things to him or in front of him. I just have no desire to see them. They are all well off, I am not. They sit around and talk about all the money and "things" they have. I too have a life, but they are not interested. I talk to one sister. She fills be in on the others. I know how much your heart hurts. And I know how you dream of a happy family and happy times together. And for me, I am so jealous of all the people I know that have family get togethers. Nobody can understand until they've been there. Just remember ONE thing. THEY lose. They don't know YOU or your husband. And most of all...they have missed out on some pretty special people. YOUR kids. It is THERE loss. They are missing out on some special family moments that YOU have. YOUR memories. YOUR traditions. You plan your family get togethers and create YOUR family memories. Thinking of you. [/QUOTE]
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