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Sorry for all the drama. Now dealing with abusive father..(long).
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<blockquote data-quote="totoro" data-source="post: 256721" data-attributes="member: 3155"><p>I get it. </p><p>I have had the wall of detachment up for a long time. </p><p>I tried to reconnect again with my brother and dad for the girls sake. Why bother? Some people are just evil, will never change, are just plain old jerks! </p><p></p><p>I used to hate hearing from people, "But they are your family!" </p><p></p><p>Well, in my mind a family member would never destroy, hurt, break another family members soul like mine did.</p><p></p><p>So I built the wall... I let time go by. I have my own family. </p><p>I stopped caring about my Fathers will a long time ago. I have no clue how much money he has. I believe it is a lot. He cut me out when I was in my teens. </p><p>I told him not to even put my kids in it. </p><p></p><p>At some point I decided the pain and humility that my family inflicted on me was just not worth it.</p><p></p><p>After this little reunion, I will keep contact with my kids few and far between.</p><p></p><p>I understand how you feel. We are taught from child hood that family is supposed to be this magical thing. </p><p>It is sad when we wake up and realize it never was and never will be.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="totoro, post: 256721, member: 3155"] I get it. I have had the wall of detachment up for a long time. I tried to reconnect again with my brother and dad for the girls sake. Why bother? Some people are just evil, will never change, are just plain old jerks! I used to hate hearing from people, "But they are your family!" Well, in my mind a family member would never destroy, hurt, break another family members soul like mine did. So I built the wall... I let time go by. I have my own family. I stopped caring about my Fathers will a long time ago. I have no clue how much money he has. I believe it is a lot. He cut me out when I was in my teens. I told him not to even put my kids in it. At some point I decided the pain and humility that my family inflicted on me was just not worth it. After this little reunion, I will keep contact with my kids few and far between. I understand how you feel. We are taught from child hood that family is supposed to be this magical thing. It is sad when we wake up and realize it never was and never will be. [/QUOTE]
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