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<blockquote data-quote="hopeandjoy66" data-source="post: 632409" data-attributes="member: 18181"><p>It is the Ex that phones him with the drama. Yes he is the one that answers the phone. That is now the drama that he brings on himself. I think he does this overseeing of the difficult child with his ex is, she is the first one on the phone phoning husband siblings and mother saying what she is doing and doesn't mention that husband has been giving love and support to difficult child. husband believes that now his family thinks he has been doing nothing for his son. He has tried to explain that he is trying to step back from all of the things that are out of his control. Detach, but they don't understand that philosophy at all. It sounds like he is bailing on his difficult child. Again, this is out of my control. He either needs to explain to his family better of his intentions or just suck it up. It doesn't help that his eldest sister is living with her and taking care of her schizophrenic son all the time. They tend to see her as a wonderful sacrificing mother. The more I write about this situation the more I am ready to get some counseling in this whole matter. Thanks for listening.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="hopeandjoy66, post: 632409, member: 18181"] It is the Ex that phones him with the drama. Yes he is the one that answers the phone. That is now the drama that he brings on himself. I think he does this overseeing of the difficult child with his ex is, she is the first one on the phone phoning husband siblings and mother saying what she is doing and doesn't mention that husband has been giving love and support to difficult child. husband believes that now his family thinks he has been doing nothing for his son. He has tried to explain that he is trying to step back from all of the things that are out of his control. Detach, but they don't understand that philosophy at all. It sounds like he is bailing on his difficult child. Again, this is out of my control. He either needs to explain to his family better of his intentions or just suck it up. It doesn't help that his eldest sister is living with her and taking care of her schizophrenic son all the time. They tend to see her as a wonderful sacrificing mother. The more I write about this situation the more I am ready to get some counseling in this whole matter. Thanks for listening. [/QUOTE]
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