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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 35509" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Is your ex honest with you? There is NO WAY the school, in any state, would be allright with a bruise from a beating, and if there's a bruise it's a beating. What if your son gets sick, has to go to a doctor and the doctor sees it? You think the doctor won't report it? You think a therapist won't turn you both in if your son says he was hit and bruised? And you could both be in trouble, and perhaps both lose custody of the kid. Your ex flat out lied to you. Tell him YOU are going to talk to the school about the belt. Bet he begs you not to. If your son tells a teacher he was hit with a belt or he if a gym teacher or somebody who sees him in shorts sees that, expect to get involved with the Child Protective System and ex could and probably will face charges. Child Protective Services tends not to be so nice when they see evidence of a parent harming a child. I would take that child out of his home yesterday. THAT IS ABUSE. If you don't, mark my words, not only will he be damaged by that, medications or no medications, but you could all end up in court. Your ex obviously lost control and beat him. That is NOT a spanking, no matter what he calls it. in my opinion he's better off in an Residential Treatment Center (RTC) than with your ex. I hate to sound harsh, but your boy is being abused and ex is snowing you that it's just discipline. WHy is he even with this man? I feel sorry for your boy. Has the nurse seen the bruise? I doubt either. He has crossed a line and I'd never allow that for my kid, even one who is difficult. Hugs and hope you do the right thing. And my very strong opinion is that you take him home and find services elsewhere. Some parents are toxic and ex doesn't sounds dangerous.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 35509, member: 1550"] Is your ex honest with you? There is NO WAY the school, in any state, would be allright with a bruise from a beating, and if there's a bruise it's a beating. What if your son gets sick, has to go to a doctor and the doctor sees it? You think the doctor won't report it? You think a therapist won't turn you both in if your son says he was hit and bruised? And you could both be in trouble, and perhaps both lose custody of the kid. Your ex flat out lied to you. Tell him YOU are going to talk to the school about the belt. Bet he begs you not to. If your son tells a teacher he was hit with a belt or he if a gym teacher or somebody who sees him in shorts sees that, expect to get involved with the Child Protective System and ex could and probably will face charges. Child Protective Services tends not to be so nice when they see evidence of a parent harming a child. I would take that child out of his home yesterday. THAT IS ABUSE. If you don't, mark my words, not only will he be damaged by that, medications or no medications, but you could all end up in court. Your ex obviously lost control and beat him. That is NOT a spanking, no matter what he calls it. in my opinion he's better off in an Residential Treatment Center (RTC) than with your ex. I hate to sound harsh, but your boy is being abused and ex is snowing you that it's just discipline. WHy is he even with this man? I feel sorry for your boy. Has the nurse seen the bruise? I doubt either. He has crossed a line and I'd never allow that for my kid, even one who is difficult. Hugs and hope you do the right thing. And my very strong opinion is that you take him home and find services elsewhere. Some parents are toxic and ex doesn't sounds dangerous. [/QUOTE]
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