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<blockquote data-quote="oceans" data-source="post: 35702" data-attributes="member: 2687"><p>I know that you were having a difficult time, and that you did not feel like you could help him. That is why you sent him to his dad...so he could get more attention and he could try to help him.</p><p></p><p>The problem is that he is thinking that your son has normal "boy" problems and he can't handle his issues in a calm and controlled way. He is hurting him and he is allowing his new wife to hit him as well, although he promised that this would not happen.</p><p></p><p>You are moving to Indiana in June so you can be near him and around family who could give you support. The problem is that the family is not being supportive right now. They know what is happening, and it is alright with them that it is going on.</p><p></p><p>Perhaps he can move back with you, and in June you can all move there together. Maybe you could tell the psychiatrist that the next step was to try mood stabilizers and could he please follow through with that, or find a different one that will.</p><p></p><p>I know that it is really hard. It is really hard for many people on here as well. Sometimes we all need a break...we all want to try something different that might help. The key is to know when something turns out to be more detrimental than what we were led to believe, and to change directions fast for the well being of your/our child.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="oceans, post: 35702, member: 2687"] I know that you were having a difficult time, and that you did not feel like you could help him. That is why you sent him to his dad...so he could get more attention and he could try to help him. The problem is that he is thinking that your son has normal "boy" problems and he can't handle his issues in a calm and controlled way. He is hurting him and he is allowing his new wife to hit him as well, although he promised that this would not happen. You are moving to Indiana in June so you can be near him and around family who could give you support. The problem is that the family is not being supportive right now. They know what is happening, and it is alright with them that it is going on. Perhaps he can move back with you, and in June you can all move there together. Maybe you could tell the psychiatrist that the next step was to try mood stabilizers and could he please follow through with that, or find a different one that will. I know that it is really hard. It is really hard for many people on here as well. Sometimes we all need a break...we all want to try something different that might help. The key is to know when something turns out to be more detrimental than what we were led to believe, and to change directions fast for the well being of your/our child. [/QUOTE]
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