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<blockquote data-quote="everywoman" data-source="post: 288746" data-attributes="member: 1436"><p>You mean to tell me your child was stealing a thousand dollars a week from you, and you rewarded her with her own account? Compassion, our children do not need to be rewarded for impulsive, criminal behavior. That just reinforces to them that we will "bail" them out no matter what they choose to do. I know you are trying to keep her from using...but it seems to me that you are much more invested in her recovery than she is. At this point, she should be working her own recovery. Was she forced to take the purchases back? I hope you didn't allow her to keep them.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="everywoman, post: 288746, member: 1436"] You mean to tell me your child was stealing a thousand dollars a week from you, and you rewarded her with her own account? Compassion, our children do not need to be rewarded for impulsive, criminal behavior. That just reinforces to them that we will "bail" them out no matter what they choose to do. I know you are trying to keep her from using...but it seems to me that you are much more invested in her recovery than she is. At this point, she should be working her own recovery. Was she forced to take the purchases back? I hope you didn't allow her to keep them. [/QUOTE]
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