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<blockquote data-quote="buddy" data-source="post: 502550" data-attributes="member: 12886"><p>My sister knows her baby daddy lives with a girl who has several kids by him. they dont marry so they can collect assistance and food stamps but he always gets good jobs. she didn't know of this chick until after she was pregnant of course. Then when she applied for support, turns out there were two others ahead of her so it goes to the first who applies. then the next etc....</p><p></p><p>She knew where he lived, knew where he worked, told the agencies and they kept saying they couldn't find him etc. She said she would drive them to him so he could be arrested. They said no thanks. Everytime they got some of his money he quit his job and couldn't be found. Now my nephew is 12 and she literally has had less than 1000 in support his whole life.</p><p></p><p>I like how your area does it IC. What happens if they are not below poverty level though? My sister has worked her way into a good job for someone who has not graduated college. she has insurance and a better salary than I had in the schools, but of course that was not a huge salary. </p><p></p><p>She has a daughter whose dad is involved but he thinks he pays too much. He has NO CLUE as to what it really costs to raise a child. When they were on and off, for a while he lived with them.. He never added any money for HIS portion of living there because he says he already paid part. He paid the child support, so he didn't think he should have to contribute to food, rent etc. Such a jerk. they are not together now. BUT if she gets second hand clothes or anything he gets upset and has to buy her expensive shoes etc. He bought her an iPod but is worried she will lose it... um well you bought an EIGHT year old an iPod touch! ding bat.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="buddy, post: 502550, member: 12886"] My sister knows her baby daddy lives with a girl who has several kids by him. they dont marry so they can collect assistance and food stamps but he always gets good jobs. she didn't know of this chick until after she was pregnant of course. Then when she applied for support, turns out there were two others ahead of her so it goes to the first who applies. then the next etc.... She knew where he lived, knew where he worked, told the agencies and they kept saying they couldn't find him etc. She said she would drive them to him so he could be arrested. They said no thanks. Everytime they got some of his money he quit his job and couldn't be found. Now my nephew is 12 and she literally has had less than 1000 in support his whole life. I like how your area does it IC. What happens if they are not below poverty level though? My sister has worked her way into a good job for someone who has not graduated college. she has insurance and a better salary than I had in the schools, but of course that was not a huge salary. She has a daughter whose dad is involved but he thinks he pays too much. He has NO CLUE as to what it really costs to raise a child. When they were on and off, for a while he lived with them.. He never added any money for HIS portion of living there because he says he already paid part. He paid the child support, so he didn't think he should have to contribute to food, rent etc. Such a jerk. they are not together now. BUT if she gets second hand clothes or anything he gets upset and has to buy her expensive shoes etc. He bought her an iPod but is worried she will lose it... um well you bought an EIGHT year old an iPod touch! ding bat. [/QUOTE]
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