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<blockquote data-quote="buddy" data-source="post: 502740" data-attributes="member: 12886"><p>OH wow, you are a warrior, but I am worried about you. Clearly you have a right to be outraged by what he did and what he is continuing to do.</p><p></p><p>But your kids need you strong and healthy for a long long time... You have so much to sort out and fight through and you have a serious illness.. can you get a cd and do yoga? self hypnosis for relaxation? etc???? </p><p></p><p>This is just me....out of love and concern..... </p><p></p><p>So, as encouragement to you....your kids are not broken, do not allow them to think he took their "LIVES" and all of their "innocence" .....they were injured and are still whole beings, I know you actually know that inside of you,.... But just saying that if you view them as whole, healthy, beautiful people....survivors....it could help them push through all of this. NOT saying to be in denial and of course he did harm them. But it does not have to be THE defining thing in their lives. (I am actually speaking as a victim of sexual abuse at a young age here--nothing as intense and painful as what your daughters went through, so I would never presume to know the pain and suffering you and they have xperienced, am just sharing because when I saw my mom so upset-- that actually is a stronger memory than the year of what happened with a neighbor. I can and have worked through how he was totally at fault etc. I know it was nothing to do with me. Recovery is totally possible.)</p><p></p><p>HUGS to you and your babies... I am glad you are here!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="buddy, post: 502740, member: 12886"] OH wow, you are a warrior, but I am worried about you. Clearly you have a right to be outraged by what he did and what he is continuing to do. But your kids need you strong and healthy for a long long time... You have so much to sort out and fight through and you have a serious illness.. can you get a cd and do yoga? self hypnosis for relaxation? etc???? This is just me....out of love and concern..... So, as encouragement to you....your kids are not broken, do not allow them to think he took their "LIVES" and all of their "innocence" .....they were injured and are still whole beings, I know you actually know that inside of you,.... But just saying that if you view them as whole, healthy, beautiful people....survivors....it could help them push through all of this. NOT saying to be in denial and of course he did harm them. But it does not have to be THE defining thing in their lives. (I am actually speaking as a victim of sexual abuse at a young age here--nothing as intense and painful as what your daughters went through, so I would never presume to know the pain and suffering you and they have xperienced, am just sharing because when I saw my mom so upset-- that actually is a stronger memory than the year of what happened with a neighbor. I can and have worked through how he was totally at fault etc. I know it was nothing to do with me. Recovery is totally possible.) HUGS to you and your babies... I am glad you are here! [/QUOTE]
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