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Sponsor system in 'x' Anonymous. Can someone enlighten me?
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<blockquote data-quote="SuZir" data-source="post: 606195" data-attributes="member: 14557"><p>Sorry, I don't really catch this? How would going to groups without buying the system damage him more than going totally in? If it is not a good fit, the more invested you are, more potential there is for a damage. If it is a good fit, then of course not getting invested limits the benefits you can get from it but hardly causes additional damage. </p><p></p><p>Not faking it and going totally in would at least cause more concern for me, because that would mean forsaking the essence of all those things and tools that have worked well for difficult child over two and half years now and changing them to tools, that have not been tested on him - and to be honest don't seem to be working that well for others in the group. There are nine regulars (that difficult child knows) and only one of them has been clean longer than difficult child. Of course it is more than likely that those who have been clean that long don't feel like coming to groups any more, so likely those who have had success with the group are not visible for difficult child and he only meets those, who are new or still struggle.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="SuZir, post: 606195, member: 14557"] Sorry, I don't really catch this? How would going to groups without buying the system damage him more than going totally in? If it is not a good fit, the more invested you are, more potential there is for a damage. If it is a good fit, then of course not getting invested limits the benefits you can get from it but hardly causes additional damage. Not faking it and going totally in would at least cause more concern for me, because that would mean forsaking the essence of all those things and tools that have worked well for difficult child over two and half years now and changing them to tools, that have not been tested on him - and to be honest don't seem to be working that well for others in the group. There are nine regulars (that difficult child knows) and only one of them has been clean longer than difficult child. Of course it is more than likely that those who have been clean that long don't feel like coming to groups any more, so likely those who have had success with the group are not visible for difficult child and he only meets those, who are new or still struggle. [/QUOTE]
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