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<blockquote data-quote="Nomad" data-source="post: 321556"><p>I too am sorry you are going through this.</p><p>My guess is that something was set up to prevent parents who are less than honest from taking advantage <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/tongue.png" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":tongue:" title="tongue :tongue:" data-shortname=":tongue:" /> of the situation. (As if!) </p><p>Little do they know....</p><p>Would agree, folks who rent out rooms or garage apts, etc. do not necessarily charge 1/3 of their mortage note. </p><p>So, if a room in your home would be difficult child's entire check or MORE than his check, how does that work?</p><p>Hopefully, you will get this worked out soon. Or perhaps in time, your son will move out and the situation will be very different.</p><p>It's bad enough that our country does the minimum to help those suffering like this. They want parents and families to help. Then when parents and family help, even just minimally, the client is punished in a major way. It's hard to get healthy in a mess like this.</p><p>Thank you Fran for posting...I hope something someone said was helpful to you. Thank you also for posting 'cause it is good warning to all of us. Good information. I passed on the info. to husband. He was gobsmacked. (Thank you Star for teaching me this word!). Unreal and frustrating to be sure!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Nomad, post: 321556"] I too am sorry you are going through this. My guess is that something was set up to prevent parents who are less than honest from taking advantage :raspberry-tounge: of the situation. (As if!) Little do they know.... Would agree, folks who rent out rooms or garage apts, etc. do not necessarily charge 1/3 of their mortage note. So, if a room in your home would be difficult child's entire check or MORE than his check, how does that work? Hopefully, you will get this worked out soon. Or perhaps in time, your son will move out and the situation will be very different. It's bad enough that our country does the minimum to help those suffering like this. They want parents and families to help. Then when parents and family help, even just minimally, the client is punished in a major way. It's hard to get healthy in a mess like this. Thank you Fran for posting...I hope something someone said was helpful to you. Thank you also for posting 'cause it is good warning to all of us. Good information. I passed on the info. to husband. He was gobsmacked. (Thank you Star for teaching me this word!). Unreal and frustrating to be sure! [/QUOTE]
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