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<blockquote data-quote="dreamer" data-source="post: 172859" data-attributes="member: 1697"><p>I hope so, too, becuz I am starting to be afraid literally that my dtr could.....die. </p><p>This is insane. </p><p>BUT -----so much of this type of craziness? I have been going thru it for years....with difficult child and husband and my son.his eye.difficult children issues, at school, thru WRAP and all that.....I have no faith in anyone at any gov agency.....no trust things will go the way they are supposed to- not with insurance, not with docs/hosps, not with schools, not in court.....</p><p>I mean, I had court for a case where easy child was a victim back since 99..when her and difficult child DID report it to their school and local police, but school and local police did nothing, not even tell me.....and then in 05, they reported again, further abuse, and the guy was arrested in 05...and here we are and we have not even yet had PRETRIAL ------meanwhile this creep has over 22 felony predatory sex charges 8-10 felony drug charges, then add in child porn, witnes harrassment and in Dec judge reduced his bond and refunded him back $35,000 cash! (becuz defendant had a new baby!) </p><p></p><p>I went to due process with school- what a joke.....hearing officer told me, take your child out becuz school is NOT gonna listen to me or her or state or anything......</p><p></p><p>Had instense in home services for difficult child.....ha ha they "graduated her" out of their programs saying she completed her goals- while she was at the time inpatient in a psychiatric hospital.</p><p></p><p>I have seen and witnessed and experienced so much weirdness.....above and beyond what could ever possibly be blamed on me not knowing how to work any system......</p><p></p><p>in my humble opinion there are some times, some agencies, some situations....where powers that be simply hit a dead end and do not know what to do anymore, so to cover their own behind, they begin to manipulate records, charts, files, paperwork, so that in the end, it will LOOK like the difficult child is worse than the difficult child is.and beyond help- or the parents or difficult child were just totally uncooperative (even if that is not at all the reality) or whatever..just so thay can pass the buck. </p><p></p><p>And the help agencies I think intentionally keep the desk and phone people unknowledgeable, to make the whole process more difficult, take longer etc.....becuz they hope less people will persvere and continue to keep on trying. If the applicants drop the ball, noone has to be bothered processing their paperwork. </p><p>Yes, I AM cynical, and yes I am paranoid. I have been dealing with Medicaide, Medicare, Veterans AFfairs, phosps, tdocs, soc sec, etc for over 20 years. Yes, we have had some extreme situations in our life here.....between husband, difficult child, me and son and now easy child. </p><p></p><p>HA! Go figure, I was an advocate for elderly.....for mentally ill......for ALzheimers AND Hospice......Yes, for a time, I provided in home care and on occasion in home respite.....and I also was called to be a case manager......</p><p></p><p>I respectfully declined. From others, I learned just how corrupt it ALL is.and how things get twisted to pass the buck so liability and accountability WILL fall to the people needing the help. (If the helping agencies are not haveing any luck) OK< so, I have NOT been in that now in a few years..and MAYBE things have changed......but......</p><p></p><p></p><p>It is so sad, so scary, so wrong. </p><p>and yes, Life has been unbelievably difficult. and it has taken a major toll on me. and, I AM a product of my Life experiences. I am hoping SO hard YOUR experiences work out vastly better!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="dreamer, post: 172859, member: 1697"] I hope so, too, becuz I am starting to be afraid literally that my dtr could.....die. This is insane. BUT -----so much of this type of craziness? I have been going thru it for years....with difficult child and husband and my son.his eye.difficult children issues, at school, thru WRAP and all that.....I have no faith in anyone at any gov agency.....no trust things will go the way they are supposed to- not with insurance, not with docs/hosps, not with schools, not in court..... I mean, I had court for a case where easy child was a victim back since 99..when her and difficult child DID report it to their school and local police, but school and local police did nothing, not even tell me.....and then in 05, they reported again, further abuse, and the guy was arrested in 05...and here we are and we have not even yet had PRETRIAL ------meanwhile this creep has over 22 felony predatory sex charges 8-10 felony drug charges, then add in child porn, witnes harrassment and in Dec judge reduced his bond and refunded him back $35,000 cash! (becuz defendant had a new baby!) I went to due process with school- what a joke.....hearing officer told me, take your child out becuz school is NOT gonna listen to me or her or state or anything...... Had instense in home services for difficult child.....ha ha they "graduated her" out of their programs saying she completed her goals- while she was at the time inpatient in a psychiatric hospital. I have seen and witnessed and experienced so much weirdness.....above and beyond what could ever possibly be blamed on me not knowing how to work any system...... in my humble opinion there are some times, some agencies, some situations....where powers that be simply hit a dead end and do not know what to do anymore, so to cover their own behind, they begin to manipulate records, charts, files, paperwork, so that in the end, it will LOOK like the difficult child is worse than the difficult child is.and beyond help- or the parents or difficult child were just totally uncooperative (even if that is not at all the reality) or whatever..just so thay can pass the buck. And the help agencies I think intentionally keep the desk and phone people unknowledgeable, to make the whole process more difficult, take longer etc.....becuz they hope less people will persvere and continue to keep on trying. If the applicants drop the ball, noone has to be bothered processing their paperwork. Yes, I AM cynical, and yes I am paranoid. I have been dealing with Medicaide, Medicare, Veterans AFfairs, phosps, tdocs, soc sec, etc for over 20 years. Yes, we have had some extreme situations in our life here.....between husband, difficult child, me and son and now easy child. HA! Go figure, I was an advocate for elderly.....for mentally ill......for ALzheimers AND Hospice......Yes, for a time, I provided in home care and on occasion in home respite.....and I also was called to be a case manager...... I respectfully declined. From others, I learned just how corrupt it ALL is.and how things get twisted to pass the buck so liability and accountability WILL fall to the people needing the help. (If the helping agencies are not haveing any luck) OK< so, I have NOT been in that now in a few years..and MAYBE things have changed......but...... It is so sad, so scary, so wrong. and yes, Life has been unbelievably difficult. and it has taken a major toll on me. and, I AM a product of my Life experiences. I am hoping SO hard YOUR experiences work out vastly better! [/QUOTE]
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