Uggh I wrote this week that i missed my 19 year old son who has been living on his own for a month. We asked him to leave for demanding to smoke pot in his room. Now, one month later he wants to move back home. He can not afford rent. We told him he can only come back if he agrees to not bring pot or paraphenelia in the house. He cursed and said no way. He said he will do what he wants. He said fine i will stand in the road in front of your house and smoke a blunt thats not your property. He said he will just live in his car. He refuses to see that we will not allow drugs in our home. We can not give in. I guess he will have to live in his car. This is so painful but we have to stand firm on our beliefs. Thank you for listening. I appreciated all of the supportive comments from my last post. I appreciate any advice that you have for me.