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<blockquote data-quote="Suz" data-source="post: 93592" data-attributes="member: 29"><p><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Quote:</div><div class="ubbcode-body">I am not a moderator and do not envy their job, it is a tough call in a lot of cases. </div></div></p><p></p><p>Yes it is.</p><p></p><p>There isn't a parent who posts habitually in PE who is mean spirited just to be nasty. We are family here. This is a place for us to lay out our fears and problems (and joys) for the world to see, but when you do so you have to be willing to hear even those things you might not want to hear.</p><p></p><p>If you only want people to say "good job" then go stand in front of a mirror and say it to yourself.</p><p></p><p>Susan and I have corresponded via PM several times, including last night. PM is a place to have private conversations, it isn't being banished to "no man's land." </p><p></p><p>And locking Susan's thread was not putting a muzzle on her- it was to encourage her to start a new thread with a new thought. It's interesting that she understands that and has never taken offense and you don't.</p><p></p><p>But I am not going to debate- or defend- this endlessly. It is my job to look at the forum as a whole, as well as the people and posts individually. You aren't the only one who gets PMs from members- I get a good number as well- and I have to be fair to all.</p><p></p><p>So you have had your say and I have had mine. And with that it is time to move on and concentrate on why we should be here- and that is helping others.</p><p></p><p>Suz</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Suz, post: 93592, member: 29"] <div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Quote:</div><div class="ubbcode-body">I am not a moderator and do not envy their job, it is a tough call in a lot of cases. </div></div> Yes it is. There isn't a parent who posts habitually in PE who is mean spirited just to be nasty. We are family here. This is a place for us to lay out our fears and problems (and joys) for the world to see, but when you do so you have to be willing to hear even those things you might not want to hear. If you only want people to say "good job" then go stand in front of a mirror and say it to yourself. Susan and I have corresponded via PM several times, including last night. PM is a place to have private conversations, it isn't being banished to "no man's land." And locking Susan's thread was not putting a muzzle on her- it was to encourage her to start a new thread with a new thought. It's interesting that she understands that and has never taken offense and you don't. But I am not going to debate- or defend- this endlessly. It is my job to look at the forum as a whole, as well as the people and posts individually. You aren't the only one who gets PMs from members- I get a good number as well- and I have to be fair to all. So you have had your say and I have had mine. And with that it is time to move on and concentrate on why we should be here- and that is helping others. Suz [/QUOTE]
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