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<blockquote data-quote="witzend" data-source="post: 129249" data-attributes="member: 99"><p>I'm glad that you and your husband were able to get away and have a nice weekend with each other. Everyone deserves that.</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>If you were to read this sentence back to yourself, I wonder if you could see what an oxymoron it is. The normal part should be your life. Going ahead with your life while he suffers - or becomes a productive member of society - or just gets his act together - is <em>normal</em>. Feeling that there is anything wrong with moving on "while he suffers" is totally wrong. </p><p></p><p>He's been in jail for what, 5 or 6 months now? I mean, M has been gone from our home for 5 years now, and it's true that a day probably doesn't go by that I don't think about him. But the h377 if I will feel guilty about his position in life! </p><p></p><p>I'd like to ask that you start a new thread. This one is over a month old and has really outlived it's usefulness. It seems to bring you back to an unhappy place. It might be easier for you to move on if you took each thing in your life as it's own. You went out of town, that was a good time to start a new thread. </p><p></p><p>You seriously need to move on. Revisiting where your son is and how sad he must be is not healthy. For him or for you. Honestly, it's a little disturbing that in all of this time you haven't had one word of concern for the 15 year old that you son was getting high with. It does not matter one iota <em>who</em> got the drugs from <em>where</em>, your son was 24 years old, <em>nine years</em> older than this <em>child</em>. Your son had the responsibility that every adult has to protect the child, not engage in illegal and illicit activities with him. He is where he should be. When will you allow yourself to be where you should be? (Not in his head.)</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="witzend, post: 129249, member: 99"] I'm glad that you and your husband were able to get away and have a nice weekend with each other. Everyone deserves that. If you were to read this sentence back to yourself, I wonder if you could see what an oxymoron it is. The normal part should be your life. Going ahead with your life while he suffers - or becomes a productive member of society - or just gets his act together - is [i]normal[/i]. Feeling that there is anything wrong with moving on "while he suffers" is totally wrong. He's been in jail for what, 5 or 6 months now? I mean, M has been gone from our home for 5 years now, and it's true that a day probably doesn't go by that I don't think about him. But the h377 if I will feel guilty about his position in life! I'd like to ask that you start a new thread. This one is over a month old and has really outlived it's usefulness. It seems to bring you back to an unhappy place. It might be easier for you to move on if you took each thing in your life as it's own. You went out of town, that was a good time to start a new thread. You seriously need to move on. Revisiting where your son is and how sad he must be is not healthy. For him or for you. Honestly, it's a little disturbing that in all of this time you haven't had one word of concern for the 15 year old that you son was getting high with. It does not matter one iota [i]who[/i] got the drugs from [i]where[/i], your son was 24 years old, [i]nine years[/i] older than this [i]child[/i]. Your son had the responsibility that every adult has to protect the child, not engage in illegal and illicit activities with him. He is where he should be. When will you allow yourself to be where you should be? (Not in his head.) [/QUOTE]
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