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<blockquote data-quote="klmno" data-source="post: 359169" data-attributes="member: 3699"><p>Janet- he previously used paper from a book and still has bongs made from soda containers and an old milk jug. That is why I say- and I take it you are pointing this out too- there is more to it than wanting to smoke because he deliberately turned around and cut up more than one brand new container that he knew I really liked and wanted. It isn't the first time he has done something like that. Now honestly, if they think I need therapy because I can't see how a contract that says difficult child will stop all this if I cook more of what he wants or I change is sending him the right message and going to help him change- well, I can't see it. I'm sorry. I just honestly believe that approach would only encourage him to feel he can and should manipulate and retaliate and try to use illegal activity to control others.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="klmno, post: 359169, member: 3699"] Janet- he previously used paper from a book and still has bongs made from soda containers and an old milk jug. That is why I say- and I take it you are pointing this out too- there is more to it than wanting to smoke because he deliberately turned around and cut up more than one brand new container that he knew I really liked and wanted. It isn't the first time he has done something like that. Now honestly, if they think I need therapy because I can't see how a contract that says difficult child will stop all this if I cook more of what he wants or I change is sending him the right message and going to help him change- well, I can't see it. I'm sorry. I just honestly believe that approach would only encourage him to feel he can and should manipulate and retaliate and try to use illegal activity to control others. [/QUOTE]
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