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Staying detached while tethered....
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<blockquote data-quote="rebelson" data-source="post: 688073" data-attributes="member: 19966"><p>Are you referring to me here, Copa? I doubt it because you know from my posts how my son has treated me. And also I have posted plenty and recently on here how I do not stand up to him. But need to start. I react like mush to his meanness & that's not good. </p><p></p><p>I have been SO soft, patient and loving to my son, that he feels free to take out ALL of his frustrations on me. He knows my love has been constant & is unconditional. </p><p></p><p>I come on here to help myself have strength & to get better at not enabling him. I might sound tough & firm, but inside I feel weak. Talking, venting, hashing out my feelings on this CD helps me. </p><p></p><p>I also love my son so much. Trying to be strong for my addict, by not enabling does not at all mean that I love mine less than you all love yours.</p><p></p><p>I feel like this topic is turning into a messy power struggle. </p><p></p><p>Family session parent group was fairly exhausting today. Tomorrow & Friday will also be 8hr group days, with our addicts. </p><p></p><p>I am tired. I feel deflated right now. </p><p></p><p>Have a great night everybody.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="rebelson, post: 688073, member: 19966"] Are you referring to me here, Copa? I doubt it because you know from my posts how my son has treated me. And also I have posted plenty and recently on here how I do not stand up to him. But need to start. I react like mush to his meanness & that's not good. I have been SO soft, patient and loving to my son, that he feels free to take out ALL of his frustrations on me. He knows my love has been constant & is unconditional. I come on here to help myself have strength & to get better at not enabling him. I might sound tough & firm, but inside I feel weak. Talking, venting, hashing out my feelings on this CD helps me. I also love my son so much. Trying to be strong for my addict, by not enabling does not at all mean that I love mine less than you all love yours. I feel like this topic is turning into a messy power struggle. Family session parent group was fairly exhausting today. Tomorrow & Friday will also be 8hr group days, with our addicts. I am tired. I feel deflated right now. Have a great night everybody. [/QUOTE]
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