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<blockquote data-quote="Free Kittens" data-source="post: 452815" data-attributes="member: 12521"><p>Hi DS3,</p><p></p><p>Consequences. This is a tough one. Beanz takes things she wants just because she wants them. She seems to be doing less of this as time goes on. I'm not sure what we may have done to help other than keep hitting at her ability (or lack thereof) to understand what it feels like to be in the others shoes, with a bunch of issues. Natural consequences are my favorites when I can come up with them. Like, if he steals X what/how would like be different if X just didn't exist? Example, He stole all your yogurt and now you are just too tired from not having your yogurt and having to make another trip to the grocery store that you don't have the energy to play lego's with him, or the time beacause now you have to go back to the grocery store. I know it sounds a bit over the top, but seems to work with beanz.</p><p></p><p>Maybe have a treasure box for him to experience what favored possessions feels like and then ask him what it would feel like if you took them without asking?</p><p></p><p>Let me know?</p><p>Free Kittens</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Free Kittens, post: 452815, member: 12521"] Hi DS3, Consequences. This is a tough one. Beanz takes things she wants just because she wants them. She seems to be doing less of this as time goes on. I'm not sure what we may have done to help other than keep hitting at her ability (or lack thereof) to understand what it feels like to be in the others shoes, with a bunch of issues. Natural consequences are my favorites when I can come up with them. Like, if he steals X what/how would like be different if X just didn't exist? Example, He stole all your yogurt and now you are just too tired from not having your yogurt and having to make another trip to the grocery store that you don't have the energy to play lego's with him, or the time beacause now you have to go back to the grocery store. I know it sounds a bit over the top, but seems to work with beanz. Maybe have a treasure box for him to experience what favored possessions feels like and then ask him what it would feel like if you took them without asking? Let me know? Free Kittens [/QUOTE]
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