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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 697281" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>I wouldnt want her drinking at home. I'd lock up all the liquor. She could have an alcohol problem and I would not want to find this out in my house. Or supply the booze which could be poison to her. I believe thst if this dsughter with a very real disability lives at your house and helps herself to your liwuor it is kind and compassionate to keep every drop of liquor locked up.</p><p></p><p>Maybe you and your husband could use counseling to find a solution you can both live with. Your marriage is so young...would hate to see it end over this. That means you need to be talking about it. If you don't, it will just fester inside of you and eventually implode.</p><p></p><p>Is stepdaughter getting help for autism? Often even higher functioning autistic adults can be way immature (I have a son 23 and high on the spectrum). Often they need parenting longer than other young adults and also sometimes they can make poor, immature decisions. They need life skills help. My son has improved tenfold, but he has been helped for this all his life. You cannot just pretend it goes away. it doesnt. School performance does not mean autistic adults dont have lots fe skill challenges. plus she list her mom. Id go gently. Maybe readingup on high functioning autism will help you understand this developmentally delayed stepdaughter.</p><p></p><p>I had no liquor around my Autism Spectrum Disorders (ASD) son and he never drinks. He lives onehis own, but has not suffered any trauma and was taught how to make good choices all his life...he still acts a tad young and seems to need parenting sometimes where as my other kids did not at his age. Your steodaughter needs help with those social skills. Had she ever gotten any services when she was younger?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 697281, member: 1550"] I wouldnt want her drinking at home. I'd lock up all the liquor. She could have an alcohol problem and I would not want to find this out in my house. Or supply the booze which could be poison to her. I believe thst if this dsughter with a very real disability lives at your house and helps herself to your liwuor it is kind and compassionate to keep every drop of liquor locked up. Maybe you and your husband could use counseling to find a solution you can both live with. Your marriage is so young...would hate to see it end over this. That means you need to be talking about it. If you don't, it will just fester inside of you and eventually implode. Is stepdaughter getting help for autism? Often even higher functioning autistic adults can be way immature (I have a son 23 and high on the spectrum). Often they need parenting longer than other young adults and also sometimes they can make poor, immature decisions. They need life skills help. My son has improved tenfold, but he has been helped for this all his life. You cannot just pretend it goes away. it doesnt. School performance does not mean autistic adults dont have lots fe skill challenges. plus she list her mom. Id go gently. Maybe readingup on high functioning autism will help you understand this developmentally delayed stepdaughter. I had no liquor around my Autism Spectrum Disorders (ASD) son and he never drinks. He lives onehis own, but has not suffered any trauma and was taught how to make good choices all his life...he still acts a tad young and seems to need parenting sometimes where as my other kids did not at his age. Your steodaughter needs help with those social skills. Had she ever gotten any services when she was younger? [/QUOTE]
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