I sound terrible for what I am going to say...I cannot stand my step daughter...she lives with us and is always making remarks to my other children..i have 2 of my own..18 and 16. my son refuses to speak to my step daughter and she gets upset and runs to her dad. Which he in turn yells at me. She makes fun of my 16 yr old. i love my husband very much but there is soo much i can take. My husband also has another daugher which is 8 yrs old and is ADD. When his kids are over..he does things with the step daughter and leaves his 8 yr old with me which makes me mad because it is his visitation!! Not mine!!!! my step daughter is 15.