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<blockquote data-quote="batzy1" data-source="post: 539803" data-attributes="member: 14888"><p>Hello Buddy,</p><p>I looked up the attachment disorder and I'm not sure how he was treated as an infanct and it would put my husband on the defensive if I asked, but I don't believe that applies to difficult child 1, I do however see the possibility of bipolar in difficult child 1, and I'm going to journal everything he does this summer and give it to the doctors and suggest they look into it. His doctors do not know about the sexual inappropriate actions because his parents do not tell them, nor have they told them about the killing comments or his threatening behavior or enjoyment of trying to hurt the dogs. This time though I'm going to make sure they know what went on here during the summer so they can get him the help he needs, the right help. This forum has been so helpful already, cause my husband really makes me feel that I'm blowing this out of proportion because of his denial of the seriousness. I'm hoping what I catch on video will wake my husband up some more. He has improved quite a bit and doesn't just blame me anymore like he did at first last summer, he said I was always seeing the negative in difficult child 1, my response was what did he show me that was positive and you know my husband didn't have one thing to say. Now with all that has happened since last summer, all the doctors and school official and even difficult child 1's own mom, my husband can't say it's me being negative. I'm preparing and protecting my own. Just yesterday, because my husband is back home helping his parents and picking up difficult child 1 he went to the therapy session for difficult child 1 and the therapists talks to both parents. My husband said that difficult child 1's mom was complaining to the therapist that difficult child 1 has gotten so much worse and that she even cries at night and doesn't know what to do. To hear this just stresses me out beyond belief, because it just confirms all my thoughts and I know whats coming. It's like watching the weather and seeing a hurricane headed this way and all you can do is prepare for the worse. I really just wish he didn't come here. So far I don't have any grounds that would make my husband agree to not having him for the summer. I know that sounds crazy after all I've said he's done, but my husband doesn't see him the way I do. He is getting there, and my hope is that maybe after this summer my husband will stop putting me, our son, and our dogs through the stress of dealing with difficult child 1. I'm afraid to even bring the topic up because i know my husband will see it as I'm making him choose between us and his difficult child 1, but that's not it. I just need him to wake up a little more and maybe he will stop putting us through this.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="batzy1, post: 539803, member: 14888"] Hello Buddy, I looked up the attachment disorder and I'm not sure how he was treated as an infanct and it would put my husband on the defensive if I asked, but I don't believe that applies to difficult child 1, I do however see the possibility of bipolar in difficult child 1, and I'm going to journal everything he does this summer and give it to the doctors and suggest they look into it. His doctors do not know about the sexual inappropriate actions because his parents do not tell them, nor have they told them about the killing comments or his threatening behavior or enjoyment of trying to hurt the dogs. This time though I'm going to make sure they know what went on here during the summer so they can get him the help he needs, the right help. This forum has been so helpful already, cause my husband really makes me feel that I'm blowing this out of proportion because of his denial of the seriousness. I'm hoping what I catch on video will wake my husband up some more. He has improved quite a bit and doesn't just blame me anymore like he did at first last summer, he said I was always seeing the negative in difficult child 1, my response was what did he show me that was positive and you know my husband didn't have one thing to say. Now with all that has happened since last summer, all the doctors and school official and even difficult child 1's own mom, my husband can't say it's me being negative. I'm preparing and protecting my own. Just yesterday, because my husband is back home helping his parents and picking up difficult child 1 he went to the therapy session for difficult child 1 and the therapists talks to both parents. My husband said that difficult child 1's mom was complaining to the therapist that difficult child 1 has gotten so much worse and that she even cries at night and doesn't know what to do. To hear this just stresses me out beyond belief, because it just confirms all my thoughts and I know whats coming. It's like watching the weather and seeing a hurricane headed this way and all you can do is prepare for the worse. I really just wish he didn't come here. So far I don't have any grounds that would make my husband agree to not having him for the summer. I know that sounds crazy after all I've said he's done, but my husband doesn't see him the way I do. He is getting there, and my hope is that maybe after this summer my husband will stop putting me, our son, and our dogs through the stress of dealing with difficult child 1. I'm afraid to even bring the topic up because i know my husband will see it as I'm making him choose between us and his difficult child 1, but that's not it. I just need him to wake up a little more and maybe he will stop putting us through this. [/QUOTE]
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