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<blockquote data-quote="Cass1" data-source="post: 318135" data-attributes="member: 2629"><p>First thing is we arent considered to be part of CAS so they wont help us with anything like respit or daycare or anything for that matter,even though we have a supervision court order and we have to abide by CAS rules and expectations.I dont get it and I cant afford to spend thousands of dollars on a lawyer.</p><p>As for putting him up for adoption I will never allow that to happen,we had difficult child's girlfriend little girl in our life from the time she was a baby when she ended up in care we still visited her and treated her like family more then her biological family(moms family) when her mom wasnt making an effort and missed court dates CAS told me that because she was close to us that even though she was being adopted that we would still be able to have visits through out the year.We had her for Christmas day last yr then after that we were told that they needed a little time for her to get used to her new family then after me always asking when we could see her 5 mths had gone by and they told us that we could no longer see her that we could have one more good bye visit and that was it sames goes for the mom.I never took the good bye visit because everytime we would visit she would always cry how much she missed everyone and Christmas was a happy day for her and all of us so I wanted her to have a happy last memory of us not one where shes crying and not wanting to go,and I couldnt say good bye I loved that little girl.She had her 5th birthday last week first birthday we never got to spend with her <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite3" alt=":(" title="Frown :(" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":(" /> so now I have no faith in the CAS we have been lied to on many occassions which doesnt make things any easier.</p><p>Once again it leaves me stuck!!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Cass1, post: 318135, member: 2629"] First thing is we arent considered to be part of CAS so they wont help us with anything like respit or daycare or anything for that matter,even though we have a supervision court order and we have to abide by CAS rules and expectations.I dont get it and I cant afford to spend thousands of dollars on a lawyer. As for putting him up for adoption I will never allow that to happen,we had difficult child's girlfriend little girl in our life from the time she was a baby when she ended up in care we still visited her and treated her like family more then her biological family(moms family) when her mom wasnt making an effort and missed court dates CAS told me that because she was close to us that even though she was being adopted that we would still be able to have visits through out the year.We had her for Christmas day last yr then after that we were told that they needed a little time for her to get used to her new family then after me always asking when we could see her 5 mths had gone by and they told us that we could no longer see her that we could have one more good bye visit and that was it sames goes for the mom.I never took the good bye visit because everytime we would visit she would always cry how much she missed everyone and Christmas was a happy day for her and all of us so I wanted her to have a happy last memory of us not one where shes crying and not wanting to go,and I couldnt say good bye I loved that little girl.She had her 5th birthday last week first birthday we never got to spend with her :( so now I have no faith in the CAS we have been lied to on many occassions which doesnt make things any easier. Once again it leaves me stuck!! [/QUOTE]
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