So the entire week was spent on the phone. I neglected work, and got in trouble for it, and have gotten no further than before I started. I have called social security and DWS, and they wont help. I have called the DSPD, and they will start proceedings, but the waiting list is somewhere around 8 months to a year. Ive called DCFS and they cant help. And ORS cant find his mother to get anything to help us either. Aparently, even though the law says we are not required to pay anything to the middle ones care or support, they all insist they have to go off our income, which you would think would be adequate... but sure doesnt seem like it. I am jsut lost and confused, really. How is it that there is no where to go for help? I mean what are we supposed to do? How does anyone afford the care of these kids if there is no where to get help?