A little while ago I felt really good because I had a good conversation with my son on the phone....he shared a little bit sbout how he is doing and I was able to just be an understanding and loving mom. It gave me real hope that our relationship is healing and maybe one day we will have a close relationship. A little while later I saw a post on FB that said I don't care If the glass is half full or half empty as long as it's a glass of whiskey. Ugh. I didn't respond as I don't think anything I say will help. We are helping him out a bit financially so that he can keep his job which is really good for him but darn it I don't want to enable him either. And yet he is doing much better with the situation he is in than he has in the past and that is good. He is keeping his job. He has a place to live. He is not suicidal....but gosh I hate those posts on FB....they worry me and there really is nothing I can do or say about them.