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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 719436" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Hi. I am so sorry, but I dont remember you. Still, I am so glad your oldest daughter is thriving and so sorry about your husbands passing. R.I.P.</p><p></p><p>in my opinion your 31 year old daughter should not be in your home, abusing you, coaxing your grandbaby to abuse you, and being financially supported by you. She is able bodied? She can get a job. She wo t? She is 31...her problem, not yours. Yes, it is hard...especially with grandkids...</p><p></p><p> in my opinion if she is abusive or unable to care for your grandkids you need to call CPS with examples. If you like, you can offer temp custody or a home for grandbabies, but 31 year old needs to be on her own to give you peace and grow up. 31 and still acting like a mean rebellious mooching thirteen year old...this is not good for you or her or grandkids.</p><p></p><p>If you are unwilling to take this step to make daughter face responsibility, sadly nothing is likely to change for any of you, except that it could get worse as grandkids get older and are bigger and more hostile.</p><p></p><p>Mother is encouraging them to treat you like trash...they will. Does Daughter physially abuse you too? She sounds horrible.</p><p></p><p>You cant take care of Daughter forever. One day she will find herself alone with two kids. And she will never have been on her own with them. Then what?</p><p></p><p>Hoping you will get some therapy as you take steps to protect yourself. Please take care of you. You matter too. There are things you can do, but there is no way to do anything important for you or grandchildren without upsetting your daughter. Thats what you need to face and act upon to find the peace you deserve. And to maybe help grandkids before she makes them as bad as herself.</p><p></p><p>You should not allow daughter to abuse you. It is elder abuse.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 719436, member: 1550"] Hi. I am so sorry, but I dont remember you. Still, I am so glad your oldest daughter is thriving and so sorry about your husbands passing. R.I.P. in my opinion your 31 year old daughter should not be in your home, abusing you, coaxing your grandbaby to abuse you, and being financially supported by you. She is able bodied? She can get a job. She wo t? She is 31...her problem, not yours. Yes, it is hard...especially with grandkids... in my opinion if she is abusive or unable to care for your grandkids you need to call CPS with examples. If you like, you can offer temp custody or a home for grandbabies, but 31 year old needs to be on her own to give you peace and grow up. 31 and still acting like a mean rebellious mooching thirteen year old...this is not good for you or her or grandkids. If you are unwilling to take this step to make daughter face responsibility, sadly nothing is likely to change for any of you, except that it could get worse as grandkids get older and are bigger and more hostile. Mother is encouraging them to treat you like trash...they will. Does Daughter physially abuse you too? She sounds horrible. You cant take care of Daughter forever. One day she will find herself alone with two kids. And she will never have been on her own with them. Then what? Hoping you will get some therapy as you take steps to protect yourself. Please take care of you. You matter too. There are things you can do, but there is no way to do anything important for you or grandchildren without upsetting your daughter. Thats what you need to face and act upon to find the peace you deserve. And to maybe help grandkids before she makes them as bad as herself. You should not allow daughter to abuse you. It is elder abuse. [/QUOTE]
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