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<blockquote data-quote="Lil" data-source="post: 719582" data-attributes="member: 17309"><p>Hello Sue. I'm sorry you have to be back with us and I am so very sorry for the loss of your husband. It must be good to know that one child is doing well.</p><p></p><p>NO ONE deserves to be treated as you are being treated. Would you put up with this from anyone else? If you had a friend or acquaintance you were allowing to stay with you, who you were totally supporting, providing with food, shelter, necessaries, spending gas money, cleaning up after...would you let them curse you and abuse you? NO! No one would put up with that! If your state requires eviction proceedings, start them. If your state does not, drop her butt off at the closest shelter to her place of work and take all her crap to her there - heck...just don't pick her up from work! She's physically abused you - to the point you have had her arrested - and you let her back in? Did you post bond too? I do hope that, if she does it again, you use that circumstance to get a protection order which bars her from your home. </p><p></p><p>As everyone else has said, you HAVE to get that woman - not daughter, she doesn't deserve the title - out of your house, whatever it takes. I understand that you don't want to lose the grands. I have none myself so I can't say I know how you feel, but I know little ones tug at your heart and it will be very, very hard. But honestly, will it be harder or hurt more than hearing those precious little lips cursing you? Can anything be worse than that?</p><p></p><p>She will not change. Why should she? She has everything paid for, an ATM, housekeeper, cook, babysitter and punching bag all rolled up in one mom-sized package. Nothing is going to change unless YOU change it! </p><p></p><p>I am so, so sorry for your pain. Please, get help and get her out of your home!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Lil, post: 719582, member: 17309"] Hello Sue. I'm sorry you have to be back with us and I am so very sorry for the loss of your husband. It must be good to know that one child is doing well. NO ONE deserves to be treated as you are being treated. Would you put up with this from anyone else? If you had a friend or acquaintance you were allowing to stay with you, who you were totally supporting, providing with food, shelter, necessaries, spending gas money, cleaning up after...would you let them curse you and abuse you? NO! No one would put up with that! If your state requires eviction proceedings, start them. If your state does not, drop her butt off at the closest shelter to her place of work and take all her crap to her there - heck...just don't pick her up from work! She's physically abused you - to the point you have had her arrested - and you let her back in? Did you post bond too? I do hope that, if she does it again, you use that circumstance to get a protection order which bars her from your home. As everyone else has said, you HAVE to get that woman - not daughter, she doesn't deserve the title - out of your house, whatever it takes. I understand that you don't want to lose the grands. I have none myself so I can't say I know how you feel, but I know little ones tug at your heart and it will be very, very hard. But honestly, will it be harder or hurt more than hearing those precious little lips cursing you? Can anything be worse than that? She will not change. Why should she? She has everything paid for, an ATM, housekeeper, cook, babysitter and punching bag all rolled up in one mom-sized package. Nothing is going to change unless YOU change it! I am so, so sorry for your pain. Please, get help and get her out of your home! [/QUOTE]
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