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<blockquote data-quote="peg2" data-source="post: 59213" data-attributes="member: 2133"><p>My husband is not his dad,that's a problem. His dad abandoned him and his 2 siblings about 5 yrs. ago, haven't seen or heard from him since, I have a rest. order against him. He can stay, if he does what he needs to do, work or go to school. I will call 911 for anything serious and he knows it. Would go for a screening but might not be admitted anyway. Here in NJ I can't throw him out, our youth and family services would charge me with adandoning him. I could send him to wilderness camp and have a transport co. bring him, that's my right. It would be more of a respite for me I know, but I can only take so much. I can barely communicate with him, he gets so angry he loses control, blames everything on me. Wants the $13,000.oo my mom has in an acct. for him to get a license and car(I won;t let him do either until he finishes high school, both his brothers had to) He won't work, excuses for everything. Too far to walk, no one will hire him(uses race card all the time, he's mixed blsck/white. Wants it all handed to him, very impulsive. Won;t take any suggestions, I would drive him to work, when I could, give him cab fare until he gets enough money,etc. will not hear of anything. Blames it all on me, refuses to take respon. just like his dad. I don;t want to send him away and will definitely call 911, I will not take any type of out of control beh. Hates his step-dad, police here many times over their battles!!! Son has no plans unless it is all handed to him......</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="peg2, post: 59213, member: 2133"] My husband is not his dad,that's a problem. His dad abandoned him and his 2 siblings about 5 yrs. ago, haven't seen or heard from him since, I have a rest. order against him. He can stay, if he does what he needs to do, work or go to school. I will call 911 for anything serious and he knows it. Would go for a screening but might not be admitted anyway. Here in NJ I can't throw him out, our youth and family services would charge me with adandoning him. I could send him to wilderness camp and have a transport co. bring him, that's my right. It would be more of a respite for me I know, but I can only take so much. I can barely communicate with him, he gets so angry he loses control, blames everything on me. Wants the $13,000.oo my mom has in an acct. for him to get a license and car(I won;t let him do either until he finishes high school, both his brothers had to) He won't work, excuses for everything. Too far to walk, no one will hire him(uses race card all the time, he's mixed blsck/white. Wants it all handed to him, very impulsive. Won;t take any suggestions, I would drive him to work, when I could, give him cab fare until he gets enough money,etc. will not hear of anything. Blames it all on me, refuses to take respon. just like his dad. I don;t want to send him away and will definitely call 911, I will not take any type of out of control beh. Hates his step-dad, police here many times over their battles!!! Son has no plans unless it is all handed to him...... [/QUOTE]
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