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Sundays are hard! (Warning whiny post ahead)
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<blockquote data-quote="Signorina" data-source="post: 466158"><p>Thank you all so much for attending my pity party. Seriously though, thank you so much for you insight and your compassion. I am astounded by and so very grateful for your kindness and encouraging words of advice. I feel like you all are my best friends - and I've only been here a month.</p><p></p><p>By means of explanation my "wanting to make him happy" comments stem from the incredibly hurtful things he said as he was leaving. He told me he hated me, he hated having us as parents, he hated our family- but not his brothers - who -- by the way -- hate us too. (apparently they talk all the time about how awful we are) That our family was a joke and completely and totally dysfunctional. That we are fake and full of bs and everyone saw right through us...and that he never wanted to be a part of this family except for being with his brothers and something about how we couldn't keep him from them and that they would chose him over us... I could go on and on but you get the gist.</p><p></p><p>In my rational 10am-10pm world, I know he chose the must hurtful "go for the jugular" things he could say to me. I know many of you have experienced physical acts of destruction by your difficult children - my son's words were his form of destruction. In my "pity party, table for one" moments on Sunday at 11:55 pm, I go over and over his words and wonder if he really truly meant them...if that's how he sees me... if he's that narcissistic or if he's really just that much of a jerk...</p><p></p><p>And since he won't answer my texts or call me - I pour my words out on my computer instead of to him... fwiw - he hasn't been in touch with either of his brothers since he walked out the door. He didn't even say goodbye to them when he left.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Signorina, post: 466158"] Thank you all so much for attending my pity party. Seriously though, thank you so much for you insight and your compassion. I am astounded by and so very grateful for your kindness and encouraging words of advice. I feel like you all are my best friends - and I've only been here a month. By means of explanation my "wanting to make him happy" comments stem from the incredibly hurtful things he said as he was leaving. He told me he hated me, he hated having us as parents, he hated our family- but not his brothers - who -- by the way -- hate us too. (apparently they talk all the time about how awful we are) That our family was a joke and completely and totally dysfunctional. That we are fake and full of bs and everyone saw right through us...and that he never wanted to be a part of this family except for being with his brothers and something about how we couldn't keep him from them and that they would chose him over us... I could go on and on but you get the gist. In my rational 10am-10pm world, I know he chose the must hurtful "go for the jugular" things he could say to me. I know many of you have experienced physical acts of destruction by your difficult children - my son's words were his form of destruction. In my "pity party, table for one" moments on Sunday at 11:55 pm, I go over and over his words and wonder if he really truly meant them...if that's how he sees me... if he's that narcissistic or if he's really just that much of a jerk... And since he won't answer my texts or call me - I pour my words out on my computer instead of to him... fwiw - he hasn't been in touch with either of his brothers since he walked out the door. He didn't even say goodbye to them when he left. [/QUOTE]
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