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<blockquote data-quote="totoro" data-source="post: 346143" data-attributes="member: 3155"><p>You asked me these questions the other day, which are great by the way. </p><p></p><p>"I guess I would reflect back and ponder why you moved to AZ. </p><p>Has the healthcare that K has gotten since you moved changed things, enhanced things, made things better? What about the schools in AZ, what difference have they made?</p><p>If all is positive, then I would say you have to take pause, and possibly readjust your goals. A truly golden renter is possible. You have already sacrificed so much - that sacrificing a bit more is doable if the outcome is what you want. </p><p>However, if you your answers to the healthcare and school question were only mediocre or somewhat negative than I would not look back. I would move on. You tried, and it helped in the interim, but it is not worth sacrificing for."</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>I think you can turn these questions and ask them of yourself. husband and I have been asking these questions for a while now. We can fix some of them some we can work on.</p><p></p><p>I don't know the answers for Matt. I am having to detach from my 5 yo's anxiety right now which is so hard. CBT is so hard when it is your baby. But she needs to do this for herself. </p><p>I know all of the things we are going through will only make it worse when she finds out. </p><p></p><p>I wish I knew the answer to help Matt gain some stability and to give you peace of mind. </p><p></p><p>I have no idea what I will do if K is in this position at that age.</p><p>Sending you lots of love and support.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="totoro, post: 346143, member: 3155"] You asked me these questions the other day, which are great by the way. "I guess I would reflect back and ponder why you moved to AZ. Has the healthcare that K has gotten since you moved changed things, enhanced things, made things better? What about the schools in AZ, what difference have they made? If all is positive, then I would say you have to take pause, and possibly readjust your goals. A truly golden renter is possible. You have already sacrificed so much - that sacrificing a bit more is doable if the outcome is what you want. However, if you your answers to the healthcare and school question were only mediocre or somewhat negative than I would not look back. I would move on. You tried, and it helped in the interim, but it is not worth sacrificing for." I think you can turn these questions and ask them of yourself. husband and I have been asking these questions for a while now. We can fix some of them some we can work on. I don't know the answers for Matt. I am having to detach from my 5 yo's anxiety right now which is so hard. CBT is so hard when it is your baby. But she needs to do this for herself. I know all of the things we are going through will only make it worse when she finds out. I wish I knew the answer to help Matt gain some stability and to give you peace of mind. I have no idea what I will do if K is in this position at that age. Sending you lots of love and support. [/QUOTE]
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