Surely that is what I am speaking because no one in my family will listen to anything I say. SO I am not talking to them for a while. What brought this on? Four days of being totally ignored no matter how logical, helpful, problem solving or safety issue type things I have said. Most of the time I have been ASKED if the issue is a problem, or to help with the issue. THEN they ignore everything I have said. thank you has a cup he likes to drink water out of. It is a big ceramic mug. It has cracks in the finish inside. Black mold is growing there. I tried to salvage it by bleaching it. Didn't get to the mold. SO the cup must not be used for beverage consumption, esp by someone with allergies and asthma. Logical. safety issue. Today I find it sitting full of water on the very edge of the counter waiting to be spilled. Jessi found a bone shaped pillow at a yard sale. I asked that it go into a ziploc until it is washed and inspected. We have been fighting bed bugs. Close to $1000 worth of fighting. Not including new mattresses. She tosses it on my new bed, not in any kind of bag. We were unloading groceries. Jessi's back hurts. I say I will put things on a shelf and she can put them in the freezer, fridge, etc... I have the shelf full o stuff to put away and she goes and grabs something off of the floor, something heavy. WHY??? All she needed t d is put up the stuff on the shelf. So her back does not get worse. What idiot parent keeps a big bottle of rum out where the kids have free and easy access to it? My kids don't drink but they don't need the temptation. No kids do, in my opinion. HE is the one who made a big deal about the gene for alcoholism running in both sides of both of our families. SO our kids sure don't need it in their faces. So I arrange a place to keep all o our booze.. But then he cannot be bothered to put it away. I DO NOT DRINK EVER. I cook with some types of booze. But if I drink I get very ill and I don't need help feeling bad, in my opinion. So why is it my job to put up the booze after he gets it out? When it was HIS idea that the stuff should be out of the kids eyesight at least!! So we will have a quiet day No talking from mom because no one understands ANYTHING comes out of her mouth.