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<blockquote data-quote="MrsMcNear50" data-source="post: 363552" data-attributes="member: 8703"><p>Hi All-</p><p> </p><p>A quick update. SB spent 2 months at my brothers, 2 hrs away, after leaving treatment after 14 days. She had $2000, ample opportunity to get her life together. Her choice was to sit on the computer and drink all nite, sleep all day....no forward progress to say the least.</p><p> </p><p>Over the last couple weeks, my brother saw her real colors, unappriciative, lazy, drunk. He finally pulled the plug and told her she had to go. So go she did. $300 bucks left, back to the same ole crowd here in town. She text me when she found out she had to leave. Mom, can I just stay there until I figure out what to do next. No, SB, you cannot. Good luck, I love you. Call me when you want to go get help. It's my only offer and open ended.</p><p> </p><p>I haven't heard from her since. I'm sure the other shoe will drop, just a matter of time. I won't be involved. My question is, should I continue to communicate with her, via text or phone, or should I just leave her alone? I'm afraid if I even text her that I love her, it will open a door of "Can I please stay there?" But my mommy heart wants to continue to remind her that I love her, that I care. </p><p> </p><p>It's espically bad today, as a friend is laying to rest, her beautiful 28 year old, non difficult child daughter. Sudden illness that took her in 2 days. I've been so sad. I just want SB to know that I love her and always will.</p><p> </p><p>What do the experts think?</p><p> </p><p>Blessings.</p><p> </p><p>Julie</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="MrsMcNear50, post: 363552, member: 8703"] Hi All- A quick update. SB spent 2 months at my brothers, 2 hrs away, after leaving treatment after 14 days. She had $2000, ample opportunity to get her life together. Her choice was to sit on the computer and drink all nite, sleep all day....no forward progress to say the least. Over the last couple weeks, my brother saw her real colors, unappriciative, lazy, drunk. He finally pulled the plug and told her she had to go. So go she did. $300 bucks left, back to the same ole crowd here in town. She text me when she found out she had to leave. Mom, can I just stay there until I figure out what to do next. No, SB, you cannot. Good luck, I love you. Call me when you want to go get help. It's my only offer and open ended. I haven't heard from her since. I'm sure the other shoe will drop, just a matter of time. I won't be involved. My question is, should I continue to communicate with her, via text or phone, or should I just leave her alone? I'm afraid if I even text her that I love her, it will open a door of "Can I please stay there?" But my mommy heart wants to continue to remind her that I love her, that I care. It's espically bad today, as a friend is laying to rest, her beautiful 28 year old, non difficult child daughter. Sudden illness that took her in 2 days. I've been so sad. I just want SB to know that I love her and always will. What do the experts think? Blessings. Julie [/QUOTE]
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