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<blockquote data-quote="MrsMcNear46" data-source="post: 102045" data-attributes="member: 3234"><p>Although Sweet Betsy has made so much progress and has matured majorly in the past 2 years, life is not that great for her.</p><p></p><p>Her boyfriend is a major difficult child, substance abuse problems, major anger issues, controlling to the hilt. Yet she stays with him because of the baby. Of course he has already threatened that if she leaves he will fight her big time for custody. She can't stand the thought of the possiblility of losing Lincoln, so she sticks around and puts up with the abuse. It's sickening. </p><p></p><p>From all of your wonderful advise on detaching, I know what I am suppose to do. As hard as it may be, I've been doing well not letting either of them drag me into their drama. Yet I worry that he will go off the deep end and hurt her. </p><p></p><p>I see her self esteem spirialing downward with each passing day and what pride she had in herself disappearing. I hurt for her.</p><p>She is a wonderful mother to Lincoln, who by the way is the sweetest baby, but doesn't deserve the life he has. So very sad.</p><p></p><p>No advice needed here, just a vent I guess. I would appriciate prayers, bead rattles etc though. We all need em.</p><p></p><p>Blessings,</p><p></p><p>Julie</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="MrsMcNear46, post: 102045, member: 3234"] Although Sweet Betsy has made so much progress and has matured majorly in the past 2 years, life is not that great for her. Her boyfriend is a major difficult child, substance abuse problems, major anger issues, controlling to the hilt. Yet she stays with him because of the baby. Of course he has already threatened that if she leaves he will fight her big time for custody. She can't stand the thought of the possiblility of losing Lincoln, so she sticks around and puts up with the abuse. It's sickening. From all of your wonderful advise on detaching, I know what I am suppose to do. As hard as it may be, I've been doing well not letting either of them drag me into their drama. Yet I worry that he will go off the deep end and hurt her. I see her self esteem spirialing downward with each passing day and what pride she had in herself disappearing. I hurt for her. She is a wonderful mother to Lincoln, who by the way is the sweetest baby, but doesn't deserve the life he has. So very sad. No advice needed here, just a vent I guess. I would appriciate prayers, bead rattles etc though. We all need em. Blessings, Julie [/QUOTE]
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