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Taking the bull by it's horns.....
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<blockquote data-quote="Star*" data-source="post: 114625" data-attributes="member: 4964"><p>I couldn't agree more - a decision to not make a decision is a decision. Catchy! </p><p></p><p>Another way of looking at this Linda is to say you are eliminating the 'should' factor. You are taking your time to decide which is ultimately preventing your mind from thinking you 'should' have done anything differently. </p><p></p><p>Don't ever have a should moment - go with your decision. You know if you feel healthy enough to deal with it - and yes, their little non-empathetic, rat in a maze brains see to target the weak ones, the tired, the run-down ones. Often I referred to myself in therapy as the elderly gazelle - the one the lion went for after tiring it out for so long. And they do it because they possess that power to do so - </p><p></p><p>When the time is right to make a different decision - you will. </p><p></p><p></p><p>Hugs</p><p>Star</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Star*, post: 114625, member: 4964"] I couldn't agree more - a decision to not make a decision is a decision. Catchy! Another way of looking at this Linda is to say you are eliminating the 'should' factor. You are taking your time to decide which is ultimately preventing your mind from thinking you 'should' have done anything differently. Don't ever have a should moment - go with your decision. You know if you feel healthy enough to deal with it - and yes, their little non-empathetic, rat in a maze brains see to target the weak ones, the tired, the run-down ones. Often I referred to myself in therapy as the elderly gazelle - the one the lion went for after tiring it out for so long. And they do it because they possess that power to do so - When the time is right to make a different decision - you will. Hugs Star [/QUOTE]
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