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Talked to husband last night. Ideas? Thoughts? Am I expecting too much?
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<blockquote data-quote="Shari" data-source="post: 418750" data-attributes="member: 1848"><p>EW, bingo, and that's where I'm at, and that's what I told him in the last conversation...I am not willing to continue on like this, so either he steps up, or I start making things work for me, and frankly, since I'm carrying 95% of the load, I'll make 95% of those decisions on my own. I am not capable of continuing as I have, nor do I want to.</p><p></p><p>I can see where husband has learned some of this behavior, and if he wants to work on it, I'm willing to work with him. If he's not....my mind is already made up. He does not contribute more than he costs to this home financially, so that's not even as issue. And as far as me personally, its to the point that he's almost a liability to me...he creates more work for me than the "reward" I get out of the relationship. If that makes sense.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Shari, post: 418750, member: 1848"] EW, bingo, and that's where I'm at, and that's what I told him in the last conversation...I am not willing to continue on like this, so either he steps up, or I start making things work for me, and frankly, since I'm carrying 95% of the load, I'll make 95% of those decisions on my own. I am not capable of continuing as I have, nor do I want to. I can see where husband has learned some of this behavior, and if he wants to work on it, I'm willing to work with him. If he's not....my mind is already made up. He does not contribute more than he costs to this home financially, so that's not even as issue. And as far as me personally, its to the point that he's almost a liability to me...he creates more work for me than the "reward" I get out of the relationship. If that makes sense. [/QUOTE]
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