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Talked to husband last night. Ideas? Thoughts? Am I expecting too much?
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<blockquote data-quote="flutterby" data-source="post: 418860" data-attributes="member: 7083"><p>I guess my next question would be, though, what happens when you find out why? Is he willing to work with you to make changes? </p><p></p><p>I was thinking about this last night as I was trying to go to sleep - and failing - and remembered difficult child's former therapist talking about a couple she had seen who were having issues, and therapist was convinced the husband was NonVerbal Learning Disorder (NVLD). (She was talking about this because difficult child had just gotten that diagnosis and we were discussing how it effects relationships and such.) My thought with that, and with the other "why's" is, does it matter? Because you can find out the why, but if he's ok with the way things are (which he seems to be) then it's not going to change anything. </p><p></p><p>I think for you it is important to understand why so you can know that you have done everything you possibly could. I understand that. But I do think he has been showing over the years how much he is willing to give.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="flutterby, post: 418860, member: 7083"] I guess my next question would be, though, what happens when you find out why? Is he willing to work with you to make changes? I was thinking about this last night as I was trying to go to sleep - and failing - and remembered difficult child's former therapist talking about a couple she had seen who were having issues, and therapist was convinced the husband was NonVerbal Learning Disorder (NVLD). (She was talking about this because difficult child had just gotten that diagnosis and we were discussing how it effects relationships and such.) My thought with that, and with the other "why's" is, does it matter? Because you can find out the why, but if he's ok with the way things are (which he seems to be) then it's not going to change anything. I think for you it is important to understand why so you can know that you have done everything you possibly could. I understand that. But I do think he has been showing over the years how much he is willing to give. [/QUOTE]
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