First I guess I'll say good morning since I'm wishing for that for everyone here. My morning started out fine but I swear I'm talking to the wall. I guess I should be thankful difficult child changed the catbox this morning like she was asked (considering her father's been asking for the last 3 days) but everything after that was just ignored. She decided 10 minutes before the bus came to take a shower, even though I told her she'd have to wait until tonight since she'd miss the bus. I don't think she has any concept of time either since her promised 5 minutes was 20 (even with reminders of time). Then when she left for the bus I told her that if she missed it to come home, that I would give her a ride to school. She told me someone else would take her but because of last night's behavior I told her no, I would take her. She called 10 minutes later to say that our neighbor was dropping her at school (they were already enroute or I would have told her to leave her). Everything I say is deliberately ignored. If I confront her she becomes enraged. Last night this happened and she proceeded to tell me that I didn't love her and that she was just a mistake that I never wanted in the first place. Talk about a dagger. But this morning her mood was chipper since she was doing exactly what she wanted regardless. I'm going to call her dr today and get a list of mental health doctors in the area before I go insane.