Hello, i hope someone can steer me in the right direction. i have an almost-14 year old who is diagnosed with Asperger's, bipolar, ODD, and ADHD. He's always had trouble keeping his temper in check. This morning, while I was in the shower, my four year old apparently scratched my fourteen year old's face...I'm not sure why, what prompted it...but the fourteen year old scratched him back - also on the face! What do I do? I'm frankly tired of walking on eggshells around my son, I have no control in my own house, and I'm ready to give up.