Hi all, Hope everyone had a Happy Mother's Day! Well, my son daily is still very demanding,very set in his ways but shorter lasting tantrums? Since my father and I quit giving in to EVERYTHING he wanted, he has gotten worse again. Still the same violence, biting himself,slamming,trashing the house,especially his room, hitting his head and has even kicked the walls so hard, he bruised the bottom of his foot! And as I mentioned before, spit and hit on me at the Dr's office when I corrected him. He constantly hits me,and talks back with or without threats of not caring if a stranger takes me, or if he goes out by himself at any hour, any where. He does just open the door and walk out. Only got as far as the street by our drive..He is now refusing his liquid medicine the last 3 days to help his bathrom issues. Its powder, goes in a cup, in water or gaterade and he drinks it. I tried sneaking it in a drink now but, he will not drink it unless he watches me poor it, he knows he will "accident" in his pants if he does not continue it. (Dr said 3 months).He is not embaresed by this either, his classmates are! He wants the icecream truck daily, I put a stop to it. He doesnt want to wash a certain part of his body even if we discuss it before several times or just once. He fights me when I have to get him up,just still anything! But his tantrum was only 45 minutes, but now has added biting himself constantly in rage or no rage just because we said "no" or not yet, or did something to make him mad, which can be anything! I am getting Dr. Greenes book June 3 and will hopefully get some ideas what else to do. His Peditrition never called me in to tell me what the "Pysc Counsler " told him, all because he is basically good there and great at school! My daughter has been really acting up, and I believe still its because most of our attention is towards dealing with my son. I am getting chest pain and headaches here and there after his tantrums ( I am overweight,which this does not help). All I can do is wait until he blows at school, if he ever blows. My grandfather says he will be fine after this summer and after being in Kinder because he will grow out of it. Sorry so long!