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<blockquote data-quote="Star*" data-source="post: 330983" data-attributes="member: 4964"><p>I'll TRY to be brief. (Not my strong suit) </p><p></p><p>All these years I have spent protecting Dude from my x and his lifestyle. I told Dude and his anger that at 18 he could seek him out, look him up and do whatever he wanted. I never thought he would, but he did. (Remember the Thanksgiving trip?) - Funded by myself and DF as a Christmas present. Funded because Dude gave x a months notice and begged for $ for bus, train fare and it never came. (not surprised at all) So he went, came back and of course everyone was excited to see Dude. He came home with x's cousin by truck, dropped off - remember?? Named the puppy after my dead x mother in law? Lovely. <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/emoticons/faint.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":faint:" title="faint :faint:" data-shortname=":faint:" /></p><p></p><p>So for between then and Christmas it's been - mmm? Hmm FUN. Not. We've had to listen to "My Daddy this, My Daddy that, You'll see!" etcetera, etcetera, etcetera. (King and I voice please) Everything came to a head, and finally Dude took his OWN paycheck, did not pay his probation and figured Daddy would reimburse him for the round trip excursion. (Ahhh brains are wasted on the aging) <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/smug.png" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":smug:" title="smug :smug:" data-shortname=":smug:" /> Daddy did his "Crying over the phone" skit again, with the manipulation of a master puppeteer in a depressed phone voice "I'm so worthless, please don't hate me, my ladies of the evening haven't been turning tricks, my pills haven't sold." (Yeah not kidding here folks - you have no idea) I want you here, but I have no money son." and Dude says "Don't worry, please don't get upset, I have it all covered, don't do this to yourself." (And I'm in the background nearly choking on my Christmas Spirit) Choking? Gagging. <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/felttip/ashamed.png" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":ashamed:" title="ashamed :ashamed:" data-shortname=":ashamed:" /></p><p></p><p>So WE pony up the money again - on the promise of Dudes boss paying me back the next day when he gets paid. (I got paid New Years Eve) And we once again trotted down to the midnight 2:00 AM drop off train station, said our goodbyes - left and went to the convenience store and got him a soda and a few munchies. Why? BECAUSE WE ARE DECENT PEOPLE and I wouldn't let anyone get on a 15 hour train ride without 5.oo on their pocket and nothing to eat or drink, and no cell phone. (Oh and DF put $15 on his cell for emergencies) Thats why. </p><p></p><p>So he gets to FL.....and there is NO ONE there to get him. He sat there for three hours. Finally someone managed to come get him from an abandoned bus station on Christmas Eve. Nice. Not a relative. Nope - they already had checked him out (meaning me, and DF) and there was NO money involved - so kid ya' on ya' own. The car that they told him his Daddy was working "So So hard to get the money for - to buy him for CHristmas?" OMG what a joke THAT was. Yeah - the Uncle had told him that he got the Daddy a job with the other Uncle right - so that he could talk Dude out of a jacket that I had gotten Dude for a Christmas gift. (You would just never believe the junk that goes on here) It's a NASCAR jacket. So Dude tells him that it's his.....IT"S HIS.....he can't believe that he got his Dad a job with the other uncle who hates his Dad -so that Dad can get him that car. Oh wow OH GEE....Oh kiss kiss.....and then? Well the jacket is his....he'll never take it off.....the car? Never got to see it. NOT EVEN SEE IT. Dad's money? Spent on crack. </p><p></p><p>And Daddy? Well lets just say - Daddy spent HIS time - Celebrating his Christmas festivities - in his YULEsual way. UP in smoke. Nothing has changed in over 25 years. Not a thing. Leaves 2 days before Christmas, pops in hung over and cracked out Christmas night - ruins everyones Christmas night - sleeps for 4 days, gets up, eats everything in site, bosses everyone around - DARES you to say something about what he's done to ruin his birthday your holiday or anyday. And since Dude was new to this - He said "I come all the way here to see you and you can't spend ANY time with me? NONE? ANd Daddy says?????? </p><p></p><p>WTX? Aren't YOU a MAN? What do you want from <em><strong>ME</strong></em>? I gave you $100.00 . You can't be up my #$% Why don't you go somewhere, do something. You need to grow up. And with that he left and Dude hasn't seen him since. </p><p></p><p>Nice - x THANK YOU SO MUCH. Gosh - if it weren't for statements like that? I bet the boy would still be chasing you down wanting to have a meaningful relationship with you and continue to be a baby. Thanks for the favor. </p><p></p><p>Dude saw him briefly for 15 minutes - Out of 2 weeks. I think that was 14 minutes and 45 seconds too much. 15 seconds to say - Heres 15 seconds to get $100 was maybe 14 seconds to many in 19 years. </p><p></p><p>I called Greyhound and got Dude a ticket.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Star*, post: 330983, member: 4964"] I'll TRY to be brief. (Not my strong suit) All these years I have spent protecting Dude from my x and his lifestyle. I told Dude and his anger that at 18 he could seek him out, look him up and do whatever he wanted. I never thought he would, but he did. (Remember the Thanksgiving trip?) - Funded by myself and DF as a Christmas present. Funded because Dude gave x a months notice and begged for $ for bus, train fare and it never came. (not surprised at all) So he went, came back and of course everyone was excited to see Dude. He came home with x's cousin by truck, dropped off - remember?? Named the puppy after my dead x mother in law? Lovely. :knockedout: So for between then and Christmas it's been - mmm? Hmm FUN. Not. We've had to listen to "My Daddy this, My Daddy that, You'll see!" etcetera, etcetera, etcetera. (King and I voice please) Everything came to a head, and finally Dude took his OWN paycheck, did not pay his probation and figured Daddy would reimburse him for the round trip excursion. (Ahhh brains are wasted on the aging) :smart: Daddy did his "Crying over the phone" skit again, with the manipulation of a master puppeteer in a depressed phone voice "I'm so worthless, please don't hate me, my ladies of the evening haven't been turning tricks, my pills haven't sold." (Yeah not kidding here folks - you have no idea) I want you here, but I have no money son." and Dude says "Don't worry, please don't get upset, I have it all covered, don't do this to yourself." (And I'm in the background nearly choking on my Christmas Spirit) Choking? Gagging. :ashamed: So WE pony up the money again - on the promise of Dudes boss paying me back the next day when he gets paid. (I got paid New Years Eve) And we once again trotted down to the midnight 2:00 AM drop off train station, said our goodbyes - left and went to the convenience store and got him a soda and a few munchies. Why? BECAUSE WE ARE DECENT PEOPLE and I wouldn't let anyone get on a 15 hour train ride without 5.oo on their pocket and nothing to eat or drink, and no cell phone. (Oh and DF put $15 on his cell for emergencies) Thats why. So he gets to FL.....and there is NO ONE there to get him. He sat there for three hours. Finally someone managed to come get him from an abandoned bus station on Christmas Eve. Nice. Not a relative. Nope - they already had checked him out (meaning me, and DF) and there was NO money involved - so kid ya' on ya' own. The car that they told him his Daddy was working "So So hard to get the money for - to buy him for CHristmas?" OMG what a joke THAT was. Yeah - the Uncle had told him that he got the Daddy a job with the other Uncle right - so that he could talk Dude out of a jacket that I had gotten Dude for a Christmas gift. (You would just never believe the junk that goes on here) It's a NASCAR jacket. So Dude tells him that it's his.....IT"S HIS.....he can't believe that he got his Dad a job with the other uncle who hates his Dad -so that Dad can get him that car. Oh wow OH GEE....Oh kiss kiss.....and then? Well the jacket is his....he'll never take it off.....the car? Never got to see it. NOT EVEN SEE IT. Dad's money? Spent on crack. And Daddy? Well lets just say - Daddy spent HIS time - Celebrating his Christmas festivities - in his YULEsual way. UP in smoke. Nothing has changed in over 25 years. Not a thing. Leaves 2 days before Christmas, pops in hung over and cracked out Christmas night - ruins everyones Christmas night - sleeps for 4 days, gets up, eats everything in site, bosses everyone around - DARES you to say something about what he's done to ruin his birthday your holiday or anyday. And since Dude was new to this - He said "I come all the way here to see you and you can't spend ANY time with me? NONE? ANd Daddy says?????? WTX? Aren't YOU a MAN? What do you want from [I][B]ME[/B][/I]? I gave you $100.00 . You can't be up my #$% Why don't you go somewhere, do something. You need to grow up. And with that he left and Dude hasn't seen him since. Nice - x THANK YOU SO MUCH. Gosh - if it weren't for statements like that? I bet the boy would still be chasing you down wanting to have a meaningful relationship with you and continue to be a baby. Thanks for the favor. Dude saw him briefly for 15 minutes - Out of 2 weeks. I think that was 14 minutes and 45 seconds too much. 15 seconds to say - Heres 15 seconds to get $100 was maybe 14 seconds to many in 19 years. I called Greyhound and got Dude a ticket. [/QUOTE]
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