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That's it, husband quit, left last night..
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<blockquote data-quote="SearchingForRainbows" data-source="post: 576315" data-attributes="member: 3388"><p>I can't think of anything to add to what has already been said except to let you know that while my husband and I are still together (finally happily together, long story...), there were many years when I thought we were going to end up divorced. I honestly think that for awhile, the only thing that kept my husband from walking out on me and the kids was the fact he was over the top concerned what everyone would think if he slammed that door behind him, never came back. I also thought of leaving more times then I can count, but for a variety of reasons, decided to stick it out.</p><p></p><p>From what you've written, I agree with the others that your H is most likely a difficult child. As one member told me (what seems like a lifetime ago!) when I was venting about my husband, is that "the apple doesn't fall far from the tree." So true! I think Step said it best when she said " he could fix a wall by painting the whole thing - but he cannot change his son - and that would be the ultimate frustration!" I think this was one of the biggest issues with my husband too. </p><p></p><p>It's time for you to take a deep breath, relax, discover all the parts of yourself you had to bury while trying to keep the peace living with a grown difficult child who didn't deserve you!! </p><p></p><p>Many hugs as you begin a brand new chapter in your life... SFR</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="SearchingForRainbows, post: 576315, member: 3388"] I can't think of anything to add to what has already been said except to let you know that while my husband and I are still together (finally happily together, long story...), there were many years when I thought we were going to end up divorced. I honestly think that for awhile, the only thing that kept my husband from walking out on me and the kids was the fact he was over the top concerned what everyone would think if he slammed that door behind him, never came back. I also thought of leaving more times then I can count, but for a variety of reasons, decided to stick it out. From what you've written, I agree with the others that your H is most likely a difficult child. As one member told me (what seems like a lifetime ago!) when I was venting about my husband, is that "the apple doesn't fall far from the tree." So true! I think Step said it best when she said " he could fix a wall by painting the whole thing - but he cannot change his son - and that would be the ultimate frustration!" I think this was one of the biggest issues with my husband too. It's time for you to take a deep breath, relax, discover all the parts of yourself you had to bury while trying to keep the peace living with a grown difficult child who didn't deserve you!! Many hugs as you begin a brand new chapter in your life... SFR [/QUOTE]
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