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That's it, husband quit, left last night..
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<blockquote data-quote="buddy" data-source="post: 576365" data-attributes="member: 12886"><p>I'm a single mom too....with a son with seizures and Autism Spectrum Disorders (ASD). I chose it so the heartbreak and anger/fristration is not something I've lived and can only.imagine. He does sound almost unable to get it due to his own Wiring . That said, as a daughter of divorce and a sister and friend......the dad's in my life have mostly ended up having to step up MORE and learn more.....yours may be limited I realize but there's a chance that even for your others at least he may do better after needing to do it all himself if they spend days with him. </p><p>That takes time, but right away you will not have the stress of negotiations about what's best for your son. You have great instincts for what power struggles are needed and what are not! The level of stress goes down and the level of behaviors go down in my house, I sure hope thats true for you too. It is doable, hoping you will receive financial support and breaks when the kids go to dad's house....(my sister worked hard to let go of worries and enjoy especially the break from her adhd son's issues). I wonder if he thinks hes not.going to have to do any shared parenting???---good luck with that buddyboy.</p><p></p><p>Its not easy of course, but you can do this and we r here for you.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="buddy, post: 576365, member: 12886"] I'm a single mom too....with a son with seizures and Autism Spectrum Disorders (ASD). I chose it so the heartbreak and anger/fristration is not something I've lived and can only.imagine. He does sound almost unable to get it due to his own Wiring . That said, as a daughter of divorce and a sister and friend......the dad's in my life have mostly ended up having to step up MORE and learn more.....yours may be limited I realize but there's a chance that even for your others at least he may do better after needing to do it all himself if they spend days with him. That takes time, but right away you will not have the stress of negotiations about what's best for your son. You have great instincts for what power struggles are needed and what are not! The level of stress goes down and the level of behaviors go down in my house, I sure hope thats true for you too. It is doable, hoping you will receive financial support and breaks when the kids go to dad's house....(my sister worked hard to let go of worries and enjoy especially the break from her adhd son's issues). I wonder if he thinks hes not.going to have to do any shared parenting???---good luck with that buddyboy. Its not easy of course, but you can do this and we r here for you. [/QUOTE]
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