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That's it, husband quit, left last night..
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<blockquote data-quote="paperplate" data-source="post: 576378" data-attributes="member: 15831"><p>recoveringenabler~ ROFL....That's too true and too funny. I'm wearing those fuzzy slippers right now. My son is spent the night at Grammies. He was bummed. He'd over heard the comment my husband made about 'get rid of that kid'. It hurt him. He needed a quiet day with grammy. Grammies make everything better. I also needed a day to just relax. My other 2 (8&11) are at school & I've got a lot to do. Unfortunately I didn't sleep at all last night, so my 2nd day as a single mom has been spent on the couch. I'm not depressed, just relieved in an odd way. Kind of like I could sleep for a year, haven't slept much the past few years. I guess my plan is child support first. I've been at home soooooo long and literally have no form of savings. All the money is in the house and the constant upgrades. It's nerve wracking! I literally drained my saving a month ago to pay for some special glasses for my son. husband didn't have the cash thanks to putting tinted windows on a sports car he just HAD to have. Speaking of cars, a few days ago, we went to a Market about an hour away. On the way there, with 3 kids in the car, husband found a spot on his steering wheel. He actually decided at that moment, he simply couldn't take it, we veered off course, drove to the factory and ordered a REPLACEMENT STEERING WHEEL RIGHT THEN! 3 kids in the car intent on going to this market and we were stuck sitting in a car dealership because daddy hates SPOTS!!! OMG! My problem now is, I'm just sooooo used to that mentality, I'm afraid I'll never learn to lighten up again! husband doesn't like noise. AT ALL! Didn't like the kids playing in the yard either because he said it would ruin the grass. So naturally a bunch of kids bottled up in the house = noise....you can imagine how well that went. I'm not upset that he's gone....I'm honestly just praying he doesn't try to come back. He sucks the life out of us, I need my children, especially my 13 yr old to lighten up and crack a smile. He's truly an amazing kid. He can light up a room & it's horrifying he had to hear his dad's comments yesterday. I even had his bedroom door closed, I thought he was sleeping. I guess it's just another crappy feeling he'll have to discuss with his therapist. I'm not sure what time he's coming home today, but I'm trying to think of something 'messy' we can all do. I seriously want to purposely make a mess and just enjoy the moment. oh...and my towels r still in the dryer<img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite2" alt=";)" title="Wink ;)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=";)" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="paperplate, post: 576378, member: 15831"] recoveringenabler~ ROFL....That's too true and too funny. I'm wearing those fuzzy slippers right now. My son is spent the night at Grammies. He was bummed. He'd over heard the comment my husband made about 'get rid of that kid'. It hurt him. He needed a quiet day with grammy. Grammies make everything better. I also needed a day to just relax. My other 2 (8&11) are at school & I've got a lot to do. Unfortunately I didn't sleep at all last night, so my 2nd day as a single mom has been spent on the couch. I'm not depressed, just relieved in an odd way. Kind of like I could sleep for a year, haven't slept much the past few years. I guess my plan is child support first. I've been at home soooooo long and literally have no form of savings. All the money is in the house and the constant upgrades. It's nerve wracking! I literally drained my saving a month ago to pay for some special glasses for my son. husband didn't have the cash thanks to putting tinted windows on a sports car he just HAD to have. Speaking of cars, a few days ago, we went to a Market about an hour away. On the way there, with 3 kids in the car, husband found a spot on his steering wheel. He actually decided at that moment, he simply couldn't take it, we veered off course, drove to the factory and ordered a REPLACEMENT STEERING WHEEL RIGHT THEN! 3 kids in the car intent on going to this market and we were stuck sitting in a car dealership because daddy hates SPOTS!!! OMG! My problem now is, I'm just sooooo used to that mentality, I'm afraid I'll never learn to lighten up again! husband doesn't like noise. AT ALL! Didn't like the kids playing in the yard either because he said it would ruin the grass. So naturally a bunch of kids bottled up in the house = noise....you can imagine how well that went. I'm not upset that he's gone....I'm honestly just praying he doesn't try to come back. He sucks the life out of us, I need my children, especially my 13 yr old to lighten up and crack a smile. He's truly an amazing kid. He can light up a room & it's horrifying he had to hear his dad's comments yesterday. I even had his bedroom door closed, I thought he was sleeping. I guess it's just another crappy feeling he'll have to discuss with his therapist. I'm not sure what time he's coming home today, but I'm trying to think of something 'messy' we can all do. I seriously want to purposely make a mess and just enjoy the moment. oh...and my towels r still in the dryer;) [/QUOTE]
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