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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 615473" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>It seems to me that weddings bring out the irrational and unstable in people. It is sad that he couldn't even tolerate having people enjoy sharing the joy of his upcoming wedding in conversation. Seems like a totally difficult child demand to me. But people are strange and it was his excuse. He would have found something else.</p><p></p><p>PLEASE don't get badly hurt when he unfriends you. If he doesn't, in my opinion it may be because he is looking for reasons to keep you out of his life. It seems to be a big part of what some people use fb for, though it mystifies me. </p><p></p><p>He is a sad, rigid fearful person, and while I hope he has happiness and peace in his life, I strongly doubt it. When you are that rigid with the rules and what people around you are allowed to do, generally it is because you are very afraid of hat they might do or think if you don't control him. In time he will have teens and hopefully he loosens up before then or else he will have a very difficult time. Don't allow his fearful behavior and rigid rules to have a significant impact on your life or emotions. There is nothing at all to be gained by that.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 615473, member: 1233"] It seems to me that weddings bring out the irrational and unstable in people. It is sad that he couldn't even tolerate having people enjoy sharing the joy of his upcoming wedding in conversation. Seems like a totally difficult child demand to me. But people are strange and it was his excuse. He would have found something else. PLEASE don't get badly hurt when he unfriends you. If he doesn't, in my opinion it may be because he is looking for reasons to keep you out of his life. It seems to be a big part of what some people use fb for, though it mystifies me. He is a sad, rigid fearful person, and while I hope he has happiness and peace in his life, I strongly doubt it. When you are that rigid with the rules and what people around you are allowed to do, generally it is because you are very afraid of hat they might do or think if you don't control him. In time he will have teens and hopefully he loosens up before then or else he will have a very difficult time. Don't allow his fearful behavior and rigid rules to have a significant impact on your life or emotions. There is nothing at all to be gained by that. [/QUOTE]
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