scent of cedar
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difficult child called a few minutes ago. The bad man she is living on the streets with was picked up this morning on charges related to the April 1st accident. (When he smashed difficult child's van into the stone wall.)
difficult child wondered whether we had done something that resulted in the police picking the man up.
We haven't, of course.
Does anyone know whether it is a usual thing for it to take so long for charges to be pressed in a situation like this one?
The end result is that difficult child will be coming home, probably today.
I'm conflicted about this. It was a fine thing to feel we'd done all we could and that we could go merrily on with our lives without feeling guilty. Maybe, there is a snitch of "holier than thou" in here, too? Yes, of course there is. :O(
We had a great, normal night with our company, just being elderly grown ups. :O)
Then, I had the most disturbing dreams last night, about people who refuse to take responsibility for themselves. It was so surprising to me that I woke up numerous times wondering where all THAT was coming from. I was still thinking about it, was still disturbed by it, this morning. I chalked it up to repressed material that my sub-conscious was releasing and working through, now that things seemed to have resolved for difficult child.
In my dreams? I was refuting Brene Brown and Joel Osteen, even. (!) I'd better get busy and start tucking all that repressed material back down where it belongs.
For goodness' sake.
I hardly know what to think.
Barbara
difficult child wondered whether we had done something that resulted in the police picking the man up.
We haven't, of course.
Does anyone know whether it is a usual thing for it to take so long for charges to be pressed in a situation like this one?
The end result is that difficult child will be coming home, probably today.
I'm conflicted about this. It was a fine thing to feel we'd done all we could and that we could go merrily on with our lives without feeling guilty. Maybe, there is a snitch of "holier than thou" in here, too? Yes, of course there is. :O(
We had a great, normal night with our company, just being elderly grown ups. :O)
Then, I had the most disturbing dreams last night, about people who refuse to take responsibility for themselves. It was so surprising to me that I woke up numerous times wondering where all THAT was coming from. I was still thinking about it, was still disturbed by it, this morning. I chalked it up to repressed material that my sub-conscious was releasing and working through, now that things seemed to have resolved for difficult child.
In my dreams? I was refuting Brene Brown and Joel Osteen, even. (!) I'd better get busy and start tucking all that repressed material back down where it belongs.
For goodness' sake.
I hardly know what to think.
Barbara