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The blame game, difficult child spouses, strained marriages
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<blockquote data-quote="recoveringenabler" data-source="post: 576595" data-attributes="member: 13542"><p>Hang in there. When you go to your therapy appointment, tell him/her the whole truth, all about your husband's alcoholism, the difficult child journey, all of it. Once the truth is on the table they can help you sort through it and make choices, one step at a time, whatever is safe and appropriate for you. Don't make nice, tell the truth, that's going to be the only way out of this, that old saying the truth will set you free is true. Lies and secrets are the most damaging things for families, especially for your children, because THEY know the truth, they may be young, but kids know when the truth is being denied. Go forward with the truth and eventually you will find peace. (((HUGS)))))</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="recoveringenabler, post: 576595, member: 13542"] Hang in there. When you go to your therapy appointment, tell him/her the whole truth, all about your husband's alcoholism, the difficult child journey, all of it. Once the truth is on the table they can help you sort through it and make choices, one step at a time, whatever is safe and appropriate for you. Don't make nice, tell the truth, that's going to be the only way out of this, that old saying the truth will set you free is true. Lies and secrets are the most damaging things for families, especially for your children, because THEY know the truth, they may be young, but kids know when the truth is being denied. Go forward with the truth and eventually you will find peace. (((HUGS))))) [/QUOTE]
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