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<blockquote data-quote="TerryJ2" data-source="post: 534209" data-attributes="member: 3419"><p>I would tell difficult child that he loses 50 cents or TV time or whatever would affect him the most, each time he says that to easy child.</p><p>I would talk to easy child and coach him with ideas for comebacks. Yes, he is taking it all in. It can affect his self esteem. You are wise and loving to notice and want to do something about it.</p><p>Even if he agrees to say, "You know you aren't supposed to blame me all the time because it's against the rules," it's something. I would not tell him to say that he's going to tell on difficult child, because being a tattletale can make it worse.</p><p>Just some random ideas ... best of luck. And many hugs.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="TerryJ2, post: 534209, member: 3419"] I would tell difficult child that he loses 50 cents or TV time or whatever would affect him the most, each time he says that to easy child. I would talk to easy child and coach him with ideas for comebacks. Yes, he is taking it all in. It can affect his self esteem. You are wise and loving to notice and want to do something about it. Even if he agrees to say, "You know you aren't supposed to blame me all the time because it's against the rules," it's something. I would not tell him to say that he's going to tell on difficult child, because being a tattletale can make it worse. Just some random ideas ... best of luck. And many hugs. [/QUOTE]
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