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The book I've been reading: narcissts and socipaths
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<blockquote data-quote="donna723" data-source="post: 430521" data-attributes="member: 1883"><p>Nomad, I've seen my ex do exactly the same thing! I'll never forget this ... years ago we attended the funeral for his brother-in-laws younger brother who committed suicide in his early 20's. Very sad. We did know him, saw him maybe once or twice a year, but weren't really that close. After the funeral he managed to carry on so loudly and so <u>publicly</u> that all attention was on HIM and the father of the boy actually came over and tried to comfort HIM! How sick is that?!?!</p><p> </p><p>He left me and our kids to fend for ourselves so he could go live with a bimbo who had already been with practically every man that we worked with. Nothing like a little public humiliation to make your day, right? After we divorced, he married her. Of course, she would have married the first agreeable one with a steady paycheck that came along. When he lost his job (rules didn't apply to him, remember?) she left him to move in with his best friend whose wife had just died! So he packed his things and went back to Florida to be closer to his siblings (the better to mooch off of them). Just a few weeks later our daughter was getting married in S. Carolina and he rode up there with his relatives for the wedding. He spent the entire three days there telling his sad tale to anyone who would listen, how she had wronged him, how difficult this had been for him, how he was suffering soooo much! Just wallowing in the self-pity! And everyone he told would just nod and say,"Un huh" ..." and look at him oddly. That was because every one of them realized that this woman had just done to him EXACTLY what he had done to me and the kids! He was the only one that was completely oblivious to it! It just didn't register at all with him because to him, the kids and I didn't mattter but this had happened to HIM and everyone should feel sorry for him!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="donna723, post: 430521, member: 1883"] Nomad, I've seen my ex do exactly the same thing! I'll never forget this ... years ago we attended the funeral for his brother-in-laws younger brother who committed suicide in his early 20's. Very sad. We did know him, saw him maybe once or twice a year, but weren't really that close. After the funeral he managed to carry on so loudly and so [U]publicly[/U] that all attention was on HIM and the father of the boy actually came over and tried to comfort HIM! How sick is that?!?! He left me and our kids to fend for ourselves so he could go live with a bimbo who had already been with practically every man that we worked with. Nothing like a little public humiliation to make your day, right? After we divorced, he married her. Of course, she would have married the first agreeable one with a steady paycheck that came along. When he lost his job (rules didn't apply to him, remember?) she left him to move in with his best friend whose wife had just died! So he packed his things and went back to Florida to be closer to his siblings (the better to mooch off of them). Just a few weeks later our daughter was getting married in S. Carolina and he rode up there with his relatives for the wedding. He spent the entire three days there telling his sad tale to anyone who would listen, how she had wronged him, how difficult this had been for him, how he was suffering soooo much! Just wallowing in the self-pity! And everyone he told would just nod and say,"Un huh" ..." and look at him oddly. That was because every one of them realized that this woman had just done to him EXACTLY what he had done to me and the kids! He was the only one that was completely oblivious to it! It just didn't register at all with him because to him, the kids and I didn't mattter but this had happened to HIM and everyone should feel sorry for him! [/QUOTE]
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