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<blockquote data-quote="DammitJanet" data-source="post: 617281" data-attributes="member: 1514"><p>Like the others, I dont know what grandparents right you have access to in your country. In most states in the US, we are out of luck. Believe me, I wish I could get custody of 2 of mine. </p><p></p><p>Over the years we have had problems with my youngest son being a brat but one thing we made abundantly clear to him and the mother of the child was if either of them even attempted to use the children as blackmail, it would backfire on them in a big way. I love my grandchildren but I wont allow that to go on. If they were to even attempt that, I would shut the door and never let any of them back in my home. That means any of the money train would completely cut off. Thankfully they all know where their bread is buttered. </p><p></p><p>I do have a bit of trouble with my son and his youngest daughter because he doesnt want to upset her and pretty much spoils her. She throws fits if anyone tells her no so everyone but me walks on eggshells with her. I refuse to do that. I dont tell her no to just be mean but if she is attempting to do something I dont want to do, I say NO and expect her to comply, temper tantrum or not. What really gets my goat is when she screams back at me and tries to hit me. I hit back. Might not be right but Im not having a two year old smack me. I smack that hand. Since I seem to be the only one to punish her she gets mighty mad with me...lol. One day her parents will realize their mistakes.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DammitJanet, post: 617281, member: 1514"] Like the others, I dont know what grandparents right you have access to in your country. In most states in the US, we are out of luck. Believe me, I wish I could get custody of 2 of mine. Over the years we have had problems with my youngest son being a brat but one thing we made abundantly clear to him and the mother of the child was if either of them even attempted to use the children as blackmail, it would backfire on them in a big way. I love my grandchildren but I wont allow that to go on. If they were to even attempt that, I would shut the door and never let any of them back in my home. That means any of the money train would completely cut off. Thankfully they all know where their bread is buttered. I do have a bit of trouble with my son and his youngest daughter because he doesnt want to upset her and pretty much spoils her. She throws fits if anyone tells her no so everyone but me walks on eggshells with her. I refuse to do that. I dont tell her no to just be mean but if she is attempting to do something I dont want to do, I say NO and expect her to comply, temper tantrum or not. What really gets my goat is when she screams back at me and tries to hit me. I hit back. Might not be right but Im not having a two year old smack me. I smack that hand. Since I seem to be the only one to punish her she gets mighty mad with me...lol. One day her parents will realize their mistakes. [/QUOTE]
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